Should I manipulate girls?

[Anonymous]

I never had a girlfriend before😢, i am an average looking guy. No girls start conversations with me.

I think women are too picky nowadays.

I will use

1. Flattery

2. Backhanded Compliments

3. Guilt Tripping

4. Twisting Words

5. Concealed intentions

You can use these too if you have trouble getting a girlfriend

[dynamicyandere]

Those are all Pick Up Artist tactics — ways PUAs manipulate women into sleeping with them.


You’re much better off working on yourself and naturally becoming a more attractive suitor — in all areas.


The best ‘game’ is natural ‘game’ where you don’t need to pretend because you have already become the man you otherwise would have pretended to be.


The best facade is to not have one at all, that way you can effortlessly attract people without needing any mind games or tricks.


Women can sense if you’re playing them, unless you have spent years learning how to become a master at pretending to be someone you’re not.


But, during those years you spent on getting really good at pretending to be a desirable man, you could have become a desirable man, if only you focused on developing yourself rather than practicing tricks.


TLDR: No. That’s a ‘shortcut’ that takes so much work to do correctly that you might as well take the ‘hard road’ and have massively better results.

[dynamicyandere]

You don’t have to be an asshole, but you DO need to be confident as well as NOT a pushover.

There just happen to be plenty of assholes that are confident and not pushovers.

Confidence and assertiveness is what girls want pretty much across the board.

Being an asshole is optional — you’ll attract some but repel others.

Every girl has at least one ‘type’ they’re attracted to.

If you read romance novels, you can see that the men women fantasize about aren’t ALL assholes.

There are many types.

The asshole bad boy is only one type.

If you can’t pull it off naturally though, you’re just going to come off as try-hard.

Also, you can’t just be an asshole, you need to also be a likable asshole, which takes charisma, which takes honing your social skills.

There’s no way around getting better at skills to change your dating life.

So you might as well do it the proper way and develop yourself holistically, instead of getting good at mind games, or becoming an asshole that only attracts women who are drawn to your toxicity.

(Women with toxic relationships in the past, whether familial or romantic, tend to gravitate towards toxic men, because counterintuitively, they find subconscious comfort in the dysfunction, because of their familiarity to it.)

[Billlewis]

They've already been apprised of those methods, but you can try.

[Asker]

Im not an asshole, but girls do like guys that act like assholes and they win in the long run

[Billlewis]

Yes! You're starting to get it! You don't have to try to bamboozle them -- just be a complete asshole to everyone else, but treat her with respect, and you'll be getting some quality pussy before you know it;)

[Lara_Croft]

You just need one woman for this lifetime if it's God's will for you to be with one. Be right with Jesus, and go look for that one girl. An average looking guy who is Godly, humble, responsible, respectful and caring. More than 50% of women esp in the States will want that. No use manipulating them, you're only manipulating yourself. And remember God is watching👀

[Sour-rose]

Suuuure... aaand you'll have the professional role of asshole. :)

[Sour-rose]

FFs, okay as one can see, sarcasm. But saying no is what everyone is gonna say. But go ahead and see what happens. Your chances of finding a girl to be a manipulating butthole is...000.1%. And if you do find one... great... but when she gets a pair of balls, the story ain't gonan end well. Thank you for the MHO tho <3

[BlissfullyCurSed]

yes. deffo. world needs more people like you.

[idk119]

No you should not be manipulative. I don't know how to help you get a date but what ever you do, do not manipulate people.

[NathanDavis]

no wonder why... lol

[Anonymous]

Depends on the kind of man you want to be.