I asked my girl best friend on a date and she said she’ll have to think about it. What do you think this means?

[JohnAdams0000]

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Hey everyone thank you for all your answers I’m too lazy to read them all but I might in the future. She said yes but it went terrible and I’m breaking off the friendship

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Love works in mysterious ways & as for the heart it works that way too. As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & sometimes the heart can’t always have what it really wants & sometimes that hurts. Love is blind as some say & some say you never know what you had until it’s gone. In life if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

As for your girl best friend you asked her out on a date & although she said she’ll have to think about it if truth be told you probably have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine but on the other hand lightning can strike.

As for your girl best friend although some people are worth waiting for don’t wait your life away because if you wait you will deprive yourself of the wonderful thing call love.

Your special wonderful someone is still out there, go find her.

Tell your girl best friend you have decided to start asking other girls out on dates.

[Jbear27]

Ugh. That’s a tricky subject. Did you read any signs prior to making your feelings known that she might feel the same way? Sometimes if you were in the friend zone to begin with there is no way out because they just don’t see you in a sexual way. Personally I think if she felt the same way about you she would be excited and would tell you right away. If she told you she has to think about it, she probably was taken by surprise and is looking for a way to let you down gently or she is going to end up ghosting you. Of course there is a small chance she actually wants to weigh out the pros and cons and maybe it works in your favor but I doubt it to be honest. Good luck

[MissStrawberry912]

Not sure why most advices are negative, but it’s simply she just need time to consider growing out the friendship or continue the friendship because it’s a big game changer. It can be anything. She could have feelings and scare of the change of friendship or something else she’s concern. Or maybe she don’t know how she feels and need time to re evaluate. Try to give her time and space for abit. Best of luck 😊

[MissStrawberry912]

What’s the update why it went terrible? Is it really worth ending a bestieship?

[JohnAdams0000]

It’s kinda along story I can dm you if you’d like

[Boomchakalaca]

Not good.. if she rlly wanted u she would have asked more questions about the date (where y'all meeting, what time)

[JohnAdams0000]

I mean she already knew that

[Boomchakalaca]

😴 well did u go on the date or not

[JohnAdams0000]

I did lol but didn’t go well

[OlderAndWiser]

She was surprised that you asked, the answer is "no," but she is either afraid of hurting your feelings by saying "no," or looking for a diplomatic way to avoid answering the question.

[ohsheeT]

Well according to you it means that she's going to think about it something flies through her head to make her not give you an answer at that moment so she said she would think about it that's what it means

[Finchie40]

Means she only likes you as a friend , she doesn't know if she has passion for you

[MicroViewer]

Looking forward to finding new ways of entertaining myself on the internet since they keep banning me from every social forum for my insistence on bringing up anal. Let me preface this answer by saying: anal sex rules, bible stories drool, and whores need to lighten up. Now then, onto your question. When she says she needs to think about it, that could mean a couple of things. Maybe she's just playing hard to get, or maybe she thinks it would ruin the friendship. But knowing girls, she probably wants anal – all the good ones do. They're just too shy to admit it sometimes. So why not get to the bottom of the matter, so to speak, and ask her if she's down to clown around – and by clown around, I mean let you use her chocolate starfish for your own pleasure. If she gets offended, then just try again later or accept her decision. Or if you're tired of waiting, show up to her place wearing a strap-on inserted into a homemade coom jar – that'll surely get her attention.

[madhatters4]

i think it means she sees you as a friend but does potentially see some chance that a relationship could work. she is likely trying to decide if it is worth it to explore it and risk the friendship

it's a high risk / high reward scenario. so it's natural to think about it

[Trevelyan88]

Either
1. That she is not into you. But she might consider dating you until someone better comes along.

or

2. That she is not into you, but likes the attention/validation she gets from you, and is trying to find a way to not date you, but still keep you around to compliment at validate her.

[OGname2]

Currently in a 6 year relationship with my best friend after having to think it over :)

It doesn't mean she's trying to get out of it. She might not have thought about you that way before and needs to weigh the pros and cons, not wanting to risk the friendship etc. You've kinda put her in a difficult situation just let her work it out.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Y’all overthink this stuff too much. It means she needs to think about it. You asked your friend to escalate the relationship into romantic territory, she probably never considered if she wanted that or not until you asked

[Trevelyan88]

If she never considered it, she isn't into him.

[molonski2]

Is a nice way of saying NO ! , Just tell her to P off. In Thailand ( they never say No ) its called saving face , just like " Gee my dog is very ill or I'm washing my hair that night " .

[Zenpanda]

It means she both doesn't know if she feels that way about you and if she does if she feels strong enough feelings towards you to risk the friendship dynamic changing if it doesn't work out.

[NavyOU37]

I think she’s not into you. From experience, if she’s not into you move on. Don’t waste time on someone like that.

[sheikalana]

She probably doesn't want to mess the friendship that you have with each other.

[JacobJordan]

Never a good sign. If she wanted to she would have said yes.

[Tim2nice]

She doesn’t want to date you. She sees you as a friend not boyfriend

[The-Stud]

Maybe you asked it too early or she doesn't intend to take this beyond just friends

[rabkeduo]

she needed a little time to think of a way to say no in a friendly non awkward way.

[Anonymous]

Because she hast to decide about possibly losing your friendship, if it doesn’t work out dating

[lightbulb27]

it means no...

[jahaims]

It means she has to think about it

[PreciousJewel]

Dude she's just not into you

[slatyb]

It means no.

[Unit1]

Not yes.

[DreamLife7]

Means no lol 😆