What's the best thing to text a female on a dating app?

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I just do "hello"... if they say hello back then im probably in the top 10% of their matched. Then I say "want my ig?" Nobody says no

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

Skip the small talk and immediately get into a conversation like you are friends. These apps have prompts, so use them to your advantage. Be with, sarcastic, or just talk about something they said.

It's not about "how can I best seduce them," but instead you text them to:
- See if you're at least compatible texting wise, so try to enjoy yourself. This is about you as well, so you should be thinking about if you two are (same for in-person).

- How can I lead this conversation starter to eventually setting up a date?

Also, if they have shitty prompts, then ignore them if you're looking for a relationship. People who give a shit about that too will put some effort into their profile.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I’d say that using, “hello” would only work if you’re leaning on your good looks to carry the attraction or you already have a very intriguing profile.

If you’re relying on your words, I believe it’s best to go in with the honest intention of having a conversation — but also having an abundance mindset, so you don’t get caught up on whether or not you receive a reply.

I’d say, don’t be try hard or desperate, but also don’t be lazy either.

If “hello” is truly your first impression, it seems to be heavily reliant on boredom and chance.

HaleyCatgirl · Accepted Answer

Will personally I would never go on dating app I find people who do that kind of desperate no offense to people who are on there that's just my personal opinion I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings not my intentions. But maybe just be nice and don't be a jerk lol some people are only saying instant turnoff those people are only after a quick fuck I think so I would avoid those people but if you're serious about it just be nice ass to hang out nothing sexual yet and just have fun. Oh and if you're able to conceal carry you never know when someone might try to set you up to be mugged. I've never dated I'm only 16 but I think this advice is pretty solid maybe I don't know

Asimiv · Accepted Answer

Getting just a hello is one of the worst things you can do. It shows no effort whatsoever and almost no interest.

Read her profile and comment on it. Some of us even have questions/conversation starters in our bio, yet a bunch of men don't even read it, and still just say hello or hi. You need to show interest, and hello doesn't cut it

MicroViewer · Answer

The best thing to text a female on a dating app is: 'Hey, I saw on your profile that you like anal. Are you ready for a good ass pounding?' Just make sure to include some detailed descriptions of your sweaty moldy ballsack and your love of HP Lovecraft, and you'll have her so hooked she'll come down right into the mom's basement.

PrincessBunBuns · Answer

Read her bio, and mention something that’s on there. Like, if you see she has a cat on her profile. “Cute kitty! What’s his name.” Type of shit. Don’t just say hello.

Luopio27 · Answer

I've been sending hundreds of personalized messages, following the instructions of professional dating couches, friends, my own styles like asking whats your favorite topic, and many more!

Nothing has worked. They get hundreds of messages in a month. Chances are better in the clubs face to face aprouches!

OGname2 · Answer

Everyone says hello. Try something more interesting. Although if someone forced me to be super judgy I'd say a 19 year old with a half naked woman for a profile pic hasn't beveloped an interesting personality yet :)

BadApple69 · Answer

I used to say hello, I saw your profile and would be very interested in learning more about you.  This type of message at least shows some interest on your part.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Greetings such as hello, hi or even worst, hey is an instant turn-off.

Jared91 · Answer

Work on your profile. If you have great pics and a unique and engaging bio, most of the time they will message you first

NathanDavis · Answer

"your package has just arrived"

LiamJHayden · Answer

"I'm bailing on the sh*t site, but you seems okay so maybe we'll run into each other in the real world. Have a good one."

_piotr · Answer

It is hard to believe how entitled women in the comments feel.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

The best thing to do is get off of the apps. Dating apps are a waste of time and money, if you want to meet a girl go talk them up in real space.

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

meet up with ladies irl man, dating apps are confidence killers

SimpleGreen · Answer

Get a new hobby. You can't even reply to people on this thread.

PreciousJewel · Answer

Depends if you wanna stand out or not. So I'd say be creative.

Anonymous · Answer

Hello, my name is ______________. Can you please remove your panties/thong (if you are not on your period) and send them to me to sniff?

Iron_Man · Answer

Hello is not enough not even close

slatyb · Answer

There reason you are interested

Anonymous · Answer

When was the last time you went to a nightclub?

Anonymous · Answer

Call her a dumb noodle head

whistlingwh0res · Answer

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