I make 120k annual but not millionaire money. I’ve been called shallow but I’ve been raised that men are providers and I believe women follow the leadership of men in a relationships and to gain my respect in a romantic relationship I’d expect my partner to make more than me.
My job doesn’t quite allow me to go above what I get paid now, I got a straight to a specific job type of career. I don’t have the means to build any more wealth, I’m not getting into those millionaire entrepreneur spaces on my own I can’t make that kinda rich money. My degree doesn’t allow any career flexibility, I passed that point where law or med school is possible or worth it.
I don’t get the issue with being attracted to your partner and financial stability. I bring things to a relationship, I have familial connections, negotiation/social skills, and a good ability to manage money and sorts. I want to bring peace and nurturing to my partner. Of course I’d never date a guy just for his money but effort into my beauty and upkeep and partial financial contribution should be enough in exchange for his wealth. Is that so wrong?