Does people reject you for being more handsome than they could get. Is that myth real?

[DudeofDubai]

Iam moderately attractive person in my community. But I have been asked out by some attractive people in real life and Online for relationships, But sometimes get rejected by Average or below average people who look for just sex.

On this apps, as i could see, im attractive than 90% of guys. and maybe I get less rejections. But getting rejected by people less attractive than us hurts a lot.

I heard a trend in dating world called auto rejection. Thats like rejecting people who are better looking than we could get. Is that true? I won't do that, especially when the other person show some interest. I said yes to this people most times but still they want to block me after seeing my pic. at least they could say the reason and leave.

Yes

No

Dont know

[Bloodfeast]

I have but not with women. I get rejected by other nerds.

I'm a nerd. I'm a geek. I love science. I love Harry Potter and shit. I love reading fantasy and learning philosophy. I love playing games like magic the gathering and shit like that.

If I say, go to a new card shop to play some MTG, nobody will want to talk to me. The nerds will all be quiet and be dismissive of me.

In the past, when I was a broken person, when I was a socially isolated person, when I was socially broken, the nerds did not reject me.

They embraced me instantly. We would lock eyes and know, we would be friends.

Now the nerds see me as a threat. Someone who will hog up all the girls.

Also, on the flip side there are guys who are players who live their entire life trying to get laid.

These guys will latch onto me because they see that women like me. They will try to be my friend but in reality they are nothing but leeches trying to use me to get to women.

They're gross disgusting pustules to me, but the ladies do seem to like those guys. Any girl I liked who shows interest in the kind of man is an automatic next.

I don't know if women do any of that. They always like to talk. They aren't so judgmental usually.

[4ngelic]

yes if they think you're making fun of them or just after sex (like they could think there's no way this guy could actually want anything to do with me so he's capping or he's hot enough to want to f me but not hot enough to want to date me) but most likely if people reject you if you're hot its not because of your face. could be other body parts, your type of hot isn't their type or like they might not like your vibe or personality. there's hot guys for ex that i've known that i'd never date. not because they're mean or anything but like their personalities aren't my type at all, or their look isn't my type even though they are conventionally hot

[4ngelic]

* i meant they can think THEY aren't hot enough to get you for anything else than sex. accidently put the contrary