Should I assume girls are not into me am I correct?

[Anonymous]

Every girl is a stranger to me, I go to the mall and no girls ask for my number.

I go to school no girls initiate a conversation with me. every body is a stranger to me at my school.

I always assume if a girl is into me or finds me sexually attractive she will ask me out and start a conversation with me.

Just be Honest, I just want one lady in my life. There are more women than men in the united states too.

[Anonymous]

Stop acting like a woman! Lol.
But seriously, most women don’t pursue. Those who do are usually few and far between. Traditionally speaking, that’s an action usually performed by men.

Try going up to a girl and strike up a friendly conversation. If you’re at the mall, ask her about something she’s wearing; compliment it, say you want to find something similar for your ____(mom, sister, cousin, etc.) ask if she’d be willing to help you look. It’s the perfect time with Christmas coming up. Is she with a friend? Let the friend come too. Afterwards thank her for her time and kindness, let her know you appreciate her for going out her way. Ask if you can keep in touch.

[Billlewis]

I know, right? There's nothing wrong with giving it your best shot to try to convince her to go out with you, but when she says 'No', it's not the end of the world -- just keep trying and you'll be fine. But you better get used to being turned down, because it's a whole new era now, and women run the show, always.

[laraWM]

No you're wrong, no one is going to ask for your number at the mall

You need to talk to them, make friends, and see what happens

[slatyb]

So you expect to just walk through the world and women will hit on you? That's not how it works. What are you doing to meet women? What do you do when you are not in class? Find a mixed activity group. Amateur theatrics are great for this, or any sort of musical group like a mixed chorus. Or co-rec sports?

[Billlewis]

Well, as long as you keep coming here every day and telling everyone what a loser you are, you can probably assume that, no, women aren't into you, at least not right now.

[NathanDavis]

you're assuming wrong...

even if they actually were sexually attracted to you... there could be one and many reasons why they would just not tell you, nor approach you...

just don't assume anything

[bededazzle]

expect nothing. hope for the best. pursue who interests you.