Like say you just see the typical guy out in public, could look any which way… so long as he doesn’t look like a lost cause lol, do you typically find any number of such guys attractive?
Sure there’s always certain people that you won’t, but on average do you largely find a good number of regular guys you see in public as maybe worthy of a date? Or is it a smaller number? Or is it even a vibe sort of thing, not so much even strictly looks, but maybe a guy appears to be of a certain socioeconomic stature, and that’s gets you interested?
As a pretty normal middle class type of guy, with a somewhat above average income, I’m curious!
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Honestly, I'm confused about this for myself, so I'm asking here to see what your take on it is.
What counts as attraction?
As the other answered, I'm mostly interested in how the guy is as a person. The better I like them and the chemistry between us, the more attractive they become to me.
But initial attraction... Hmmm at times I do write to my friend that there was someone behind a counter or something that made me all weird and such. That doesn't happen too often.
Initial attraction I'm confused whether for me. It's just because I like how someone looks aesthetically or what.
So I usually go for the personality, it's much better, but takes longer.
I don't have much interest in the looks of a man. I am more curious about personality.
So now I guess the question is, out of all the men you come in contact and interact with throughout the week, how many of them could or do capture some level of interest from you? It can be hard to get a sense of their personalities im sure also, so what would tip you over the edge in being interested or want to actually get to know a guy?
Charisma, sense of humour and having the same interests will draw me in every time.