Girls if you are a good guy at heart but hard to get noticed by girls.. what can I do?

[lgh1998]

Every girl I have ever talked to REALLY likes me but they have all been at distance because I can't find local girls... hence why they haven't worked out. But I just like my own space and do my own thing so noone ever notices me 😐 just wondering if there's any kind of tips or something? Can just be really hard thats all amd just wondering if anyone has any pointers I suppose. Just to get noticed really. Once im actually talking to a girl they all seem to quite like me its just getting to that part 😐

[AmandaYVR]

Well, I don't want to bore you with standard advice like joining some clubs etc. doing activities you like. Everyone knows that. But how about frequenting the same places - retail, I mean - so that your face becomes familiar at those places. You can interact with the staff and the other patrons, a little bit, just a nod, a hello, move up to, "So, how's your day going?" and, "Any plans for the weekend?" It's a very slow process, but women need to feel comfortable, and that can take time. Do you have any pets? A lot of people like animals more than people. Or, they trust them more. There is a hilarious youtube channel of a guy who takes his pet duck around in a kid's stroller. There is a Chipotle that allows his duck inside. He buys it a salad, lolol. (Not saying get a duck. But how about a dog, or a pocket pet? lol) Golden Retrievers like everybody. You can even encourage it to lick pretty girls, and then you'll be like, "Oh, noooo, Max, don't do that!" "Oh, I'm so sorry. He likes pretty girls. I can't stop him..." Ok, getting serious again here...

I don't know. Just make eye contact more. Don't pull your phone out at every 2-second quiet moment, like how people do in an elevator (where the internet probably doesn't even work).

Take an acting class? Those people are really friendly and not afraid. People ask people out, go out for drinks after, even some fall in love with their co-stars. You know, community theatre-type stuff.

Use a real picture on gag. Something with an animal, or in nature. It'll draw girls. They like to pretend it doesn't matter, but I've seen them interact with the picture people here much more.