Why is it so much easier for decently attractive men to get attractive women than for pretty women to get attractive men?

[Anonymous]

It’s actually so insanely hard for me to get any male attention and I know I’m attractive, I’ve did modeling growing up and throughout my teens. I have social media and I have maybe 10-30 male followers out of 1500 or so, the rest are all women. when i find an attractive man and follow him he won’t follow me back and his following is gonna he something like 80% beautiful women and 20% men. Why is it like that? I’m genuinely frustrated!

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm from what I've seen, I think it comes down to a few things:

- Guys tend to care more about looks at first, so attractive girls will get more swipes/messages right away. While girls care more about other stuff like personality.

- Online it's way easier for guys to like/follow tons of girls profiles without much effort. While girls might be more selective about who they follow back.

- Some attractive guys know they have options so they don't feel the need to put in as much effort. They can just wait for girls to message them.

- Confidence plays a role too. Many guys lack it so an attractive girl showing interest can really boost their ego. While confident girls might find guys less impressive online.

- There's also some weird social stigma about girls making the first move sometimes. Even if we know y'all want us to!

It can definitely be frustrating. But don't get discouraged - the right guy will see how great you are beyond looks alone. And your value isn't defined by how many follows you get! Keep doing your thing.

[MrCommodore]

Maybe because men are often the ones making first moves. Also maybe you're only interested in guys who are already getting lots of action and thus they don't chase girls.

[ThrillSeeker01]

You just need to find the right guys. Any man in his right mind would want to meet you.

[LazerBean]

I have not noticed that to be true

[Asker]

I’m not talking about the average man but a slightly above average man. Maybe i’m just a failure of a woman cause no one else seems to have this problem its so discouraging and heartbreaking to think maybe I’m just missing some type of feminine touch every other female has.

[Anonymous]

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