Why do guys I go on dates with always call me beautiful and show interest in me but stranger men never give me any attention?

[Anonymous]

I met many guys from dating apps and they always seem interested in me and call me beautiful. Then we’d keep talking and some even relationships. However male strangers never check me out or anything and people aren’t nice to me how they’d treat beautiful people.

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4 mo

Male strangers don’t even look at me. I notice they look at other beautiful girls though

[glennos89]

You have to realise that a lot of men out there are either to insecure themselves...
or they are not that good in starting conversations or keeping a conversation going...

or they are hesitant to approach woman because these days if you try to even approach a woman these days you have to compete with a dozen other dudes on dating apps automatically which isn't they are particularly interesting idea in in the first place in my opinion...

But even if they decide to take on the challenge they know that they most likely will get rejected and in some cases even being called a loser, pervert, freak, weirdo after the rejection... just for the fact that you try to start a conversation which isn't appreciated

The odds of succeeding is very low these days but it comes at a high cost sadly... why?

Because 9 times out of the 10 you will end up wasting time and energy into meaningless conversations that run into a dead end.

And even when you actually manage to arrange a date, you automatically know you will have to pay for the date being a guy which is not a problem but can be a costly operation if you can't find the right woman right away...

The way I see dating these days isn't very attractive to me anymore because I wasted already enough time and energy into it and the odds are simply stacked to heavenly against me to be willing to invest in it any longer sadly 🤷‍♂️

Unless a woman actually steps ups her game by showing me she is really interested in me as a person instead if a choice. I know that I'm far from being a perfect, but I do realise that I'm worth it if she wants to have a good men who is genuine, honest, loyal. I will do my absolute best to try to make my woman happy and try to build longtime relationship with her preferably forever. So its really up to her know and untill that time I'm enjoying my time being single and peaceful. The Roman Empire will keep me entertained anyways so yeah...😅🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I mean they don’t even look at me and I notice them looking at beautiful girls

[glennos89]

I come across some very attractive looking woman pretty often but their facial expression makes them uninviting to approach them. Sometimes they look mean or angry at first sight and that can be a issue for men. Because like I said... Talking to strange woman you don't know can quickly turn into a conflict these days. I'm not sure what you look like so I can't really explain if that's the case with aswell but I rather choose to approach a woman that looks happy and easy-going that a woman that looks mean or angry. Even when I know that first impressions are easily judged wrong.

As a guy I'm facing the same problem as you... I often get attention from woman that know me already or hang out with some of my friends but woman never talk to me just like that. But I know my own facial expression is totally inviting when I'm in public places by myself. I always look angry even when I'm super happy. Especially in public places because I'm a massive introvert hating to be in busy public places. People often tell me that they judged me wrong the first time they saw me. It sucks but what can I do? My face is just naturally in a angry looking position so nothing I can do really is accepting the fact that it is what it is🤷‍♂️😂

[Tim2nice]

Well, in this day and age most men are scared to compliment women in case they call them creepy or perverts. I once mentioned that beautiful woman and she got angry with me saying don’t ever do that again. I still take my chances though

[devilish-cutie]

A lot of stranger men probably do think you are attractive, they are just afraid to approach

[stratford]

To help better understand, please answer these questions:

• What is your hair and make-up like?
• What is your body like?
• What do you wear?

[Asker]

Hair is dark brown and thick, make up I put eyeliner and do contouring.
I am skinny and tall, 110lb and 5’5
People tell me I dress nice, sometimes I wear crop tops

[stratford]

You sound amazing. Perhaps the guys think hou are out of their league?

[zagor]

Too bad it's too late for you to meet Harvey Weinstein.