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I'm in my 30s and recently back on the dating scene. I normally wear a padded bra. Nothing too extreme but maybe makes my AAs look like Bs.
There's always that awkward moment where you have to reveal the truth. I've never had a guy say anything. But sometimes they look disappointed.
I just wondered what guys think of a genuine flat chest?
Remember these two things:
1. These are part of the traditional marriage vows...
For richer, for poorer
For better, for worse
In sickness and in health
Till death us do part.
2. Women of all breast sizes may get breast cancer and have to have a double mastectomy.
I say this because, if a man is obsessed with breast size or makes it a high priority, would he stay after she has a double mastectomy ("DMX")? Probably not, so he's not marriage material.
Now, I want to be clear: I love boobs. My wife knew this and she had a wonderful rack. But 2 years ago, my wife got DCIS Stage 0 and had a DMX, so she is now flat. There was no disagreement between us about treatment. She wanted the DMX and I supported her 100% and we never regretted that decision. I may have lost my wife's boobs, but I still have my wife and that's what's important.
By the way, the hottest woman I know is A-cup, if that. Sure, some guys may be disappointed in you when the truth is revealed, but others less so or not at all. Honestly, don't pad your bra. That's false advertising. Be yourself. A guy may not desire you because of your small chest, but he's not the guy for you anyway. A guy who sees you dress normally without padding is a guy who knows what he's going to get if he's with you. If he's interested in you still, then you know he's pretty good and not obsessed with boobs.
FURTHERMORE, padding your bra illustrates insecurity. You know what's hot? Confidence. So, by dressing as your natural self (sans padding), you are making a statement: Yes, this is me. I am flat. But so what? I am still every bit of a woman as anyone else. Remember "that hottest woman I know" with the A-cup? She doesn't hide the fact that she's not going to win a wet T-shirt contest, but she exudes unbelievable class and confidence and dresses accordingly. She makes men young enough to be her son go a bit ga-ga.
You can too. Embrace who you are.
You can always PM me if you wish.
Well to be honest, majority of the guys like big boobs
However would suggest you to be honest with your partner
Bcoz showing big and delivering small is a big turn off for a guy
However, boobs are not a deal breaker , everyone is beautiful and unique in their own way
There are lot of guys who like to date girls on basis of character and not on physical appearance eg being romantic in bed room, holding deep conversation, future goals etc
It's just one parametre, also we are not celebrities
Just go out and enjoy
Stay honest, underpromise and over deliver.
I love boobs of all sizes and shapes. Younger men like medium or large boobs but mature men don’t care. If they like the person the boob size doesn’t matter. For you, the small size is more beneficial when it comes to intimacy. All boobs have the same amount of nerves but the larger they are the more stretched the nerves. Therefore, your small boobs are more sensitive, so be happy for that. My wife was flat chested when I met her but 2 children later she now has a pair of watermelons. I hope you find a decent man who loves you the way you are
I'm physically/sexually attracted to big boobs, but that doesn't mean I'm choosing a partner based on boob size lol. It's just nice to look at and feel. What's more important is compatibility with your partner. Besides, boob size is mostly genetic.
I'm much more into butts and prefer petite ones, which typically means small boobs. That said, most girls who call themselves flat chested aren't literally flat. Enough to suggest she isn't a guy or a child is sufficient, and usually the shape, movements, and smoothness of a girl's butt and hips tell me that anyway. As long as she loves being bent over, boob size will make no difference.
Probably more disappointed in the false advertising, to be perfectly honest with you. Guys come in a big range, someone in that range is like "that's the perfect size!"... but he's not going to think that if he thinks you're a B that hasn't "revealed" the prize yet. Stick with what's you. Otherwise, it just comes off as disingenuous.
I ADORE small boobs, especially if she is confident enough to go out braless under a shirt to show them off.
The pokies look from small boobs can't be replicated by girls with larger ones.
You should ditch the padded bra and go braless. It might take some time to adapt your wardrobe, but trust me the guys will be really into you and better still you don't have to worry about the 'big reveal'!
I’ve been with girls that big boobs and girls that were flat. Honestly, if a guy likes you, he’ll like you entirely. Regardless of boob size. Also, don’t wear a padded bra. I understand being insecure, but it looks worse than just being genuine. Trust me.
I'm totally fine with it, you shouldn't have to cover it up to make them look like a B instead of A unless it makes you feel more comfortable.
For me... the size of her boobs is totally NOT important 🤷♂️
I take the old fashion line that a handful is enough. It does seem you wouldn't have a handful but nipples are more important to me than breast tissue. Don't stress.
Personally? If you’re relatively fit and healthy I don’t really care. Different body types have different appeals.
Not a big boob guy myself. Nice to have something there so you know she's not a 12 year old boy in drag, but I've seen some very hot girls with flat tops.
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