Should I stay with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Okay so my boyfriend was staying with his family. Mom. His brother and his brother girlfriend and their 3 kids.

So the brother and his girlfriend were in charge of sending rent. But they skipped it for months and they got kicked out.

plus the place was infected with roaches so I never went and never spent time with this family before we would always stay in hotels

They had 1 month to figure of where to go. but they couldn’t find a place so the brother and his girlfriend and kids stayed somewhere and now my boyfriend is in a hotel with his mom.

he’s staying in a hotel with his mum and now he has to fully support his mother.
for I don't know how long do ifk what to do. I want to be compassionate and understanding but at the same time that takes away a lot from our relationship

[RoseySarah]

Honestly that so does take a lot and so much for you!

Soft well maybe hard question... Can he get a better job or is he in a good job just his family is so bad at working?

My cousin is an amazing worker she supports her whole loser family and most guys pass when they find it out.

I'd say it depends on your bfs character but also will he ever leave them for you!

Family is important but him loving his life with you is also.

Would he leave to marry you? If not then might have to wave the flag and go for yourself!

I'm sorry here is a big hug! 🤗