How to let a man know in a kind good way that he and I don't work and that I want to spend time for myself?

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It's also because of personal reasons that I want to work on myself and need to work more to make life easier for me.

He just sees it as; an opportunity to prove himself but I was pretty clear that's not what I meant because he is a good man.
I just want to do this all alone so I don't have to depend on someone else and can make life easier for my future lover.
I told him that, without the future lover part, but he just don't want to give up and says he loves me.

by the way we only chat a lot and haven't even met. So no hard feelings on that part tho.

What do you think it's good to say to him without hurting his feelings?
How to let a man know in a kind good way that he and I don't work and that I want to spend time for myself?
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