He just sees it as; an opportunity to prove himself but I was pretty clear that's not what I meant because he is a good man.
I just want to do this all alone so I don't have to depend on someone else and can make life easier for my future lover.
I told him that, without the future lover part, but he just don't want to give up and says he loves me.
by the way we only chat a lot and haven't even met. So no hard feelings on that part tho.
What do you think it's good to say to him without hurting his feelings?
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