I'm losing hope in love?

[Anonymous]

So lately I'm feeling I'm not worth to be loved, I'm single for a long time and been putting myself out there like never before this year, travelling a lot ( which I love to do ), meeting new people and going on date but luck was not by my side

This is a huge stepping out of comfort zone being a introvert, I know I need to love myself first but comeon I been single for ages

I'M getting depressed over this and don't know what should I change are do something different, i loosing hope and call it a quit !

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn man, I can understand why you'd be feeling down after putting in so much effort for so long with no luck. Dating is brutal sometimes. But don't lose hope - you seem like a catch to me!

A few thoughts:

- Taking breaks is okay when it gets discouraging. Recharge yourself with hobbies you find meaningful.

- Have you tried looking for connections through shared interests instead of just dating apps? Could meet someone more authentic that way.

- Don't be too hard on yourself - you deserve love however long it takes! Focus on self-care and enjoying life in the meantime.

- Could be your approach needs tweaking, not you as a person. A friend's honest feedback may help fine-tune your dating style.

- Love has its own timeline - when you least expect it is when it'll likely come. Easier said than done, but try relaxing your grip on the outcome a bit.

Keep your head high, my man. Love will find you when you're ready - no need to force it. Believe that someone awesome is out there waiting to meet the incredible dude I know you are inside. You've got this!

[Whitewulf]

I’m right there with you brother. But a couple steps ahead. See I have given up. After ten years actually longer of trying and trying I haven’t men one girl to even date. Barely even went on any dates. My last was three years ago. At the time I thought was a bfgf relationship but she turned out to be a full blown narcissist and was only there to drain another soul. It sucks. And yes it’s possible to give up it’s not just an emotion. When I go to places I know there will be women I just keep my head down don’t make eye contact look the other way. Why bother they won’t be interested in me anyways. And online all you get is can you tribute to my of page or buy my content. I’m 6’3 in shape been told good looking all that crap but it doesn’t matter. What you look like I have my opinion of why it’s impossible theses days but I’m truly tired of spending energy the half of society that are all cellularly and emotionally built identical. meaning, their behaviors have all mostly been the same. I’ve pretty much become the unlovable dealbreaker. But yeah I’m out of the race.

[OddBeMe]

That’d be like giving up hope in a brain. Love is simply an emotion.

What you mean is a chance at having a meaningful relationship or relationship at all. And get out there all you want, and you should, but if you’re focused on the wrong thing you won’t get anywhere.

[iFarted]

You made positive changes and brought yourself out of your comfort zone but there's always room for self-improvement. Being able to even hold a conversation with a female is already better than what most introverts can do, but you'd also have to be interesting/entertaining with intention. If you don't, it'll just drag and they'll just lose interest, friendzone you or think you're not interested.

[DextroShade]

You and most other guys your age are in this predicament because feminism and social media have utterly ruined women and dating. It's all part of the globalist plot to destroy the family unit.