Do I just move on?

[Anonymous]

I feel so stupid.

I have a dysfunctional family, I really do.

I met this guy on whisper about 2-3 years ago, he wouldn’t tell me who he was. His location was in my town. Come to find out he knew my sisters and my family and said things that people close to my family would know. It was bothering me for so long, we talked consistently. I did only fans and my sister found out and used it against me. This person texted me off a text free number (a voip phone). I think I know who it is now, I think it’s my sisters disgusting twisted boyfriend, they are off and on again. He told my sister to off herself and they’ve been in a long relationship of abuse. My mom started to get dick pics from a voip number as well and it started with the same middle number.

I am having so much anxiety over this, because their texting patterns are the same. I just hope it’s not my sister, I hope it isn’t. That’s why I’m thinking it’s the boyfriend. I’m so worried about it, I didn’t break any laws but I’m afraid I’m going to get blackmailed. I blocked the number.


Do I just forget about it? I don’t know for sure who it is. It could be different people, but their texting patterns are the same. I just hope it isn’t my sister. I deleted whisper for good. The thing is this guy and I were texting when I was around my sister and she wasn’t on her phone, so I guess that rules that out.

I don’t want to run away from my problems, but I’m scared. It’s photos and they didn’t have my face in them.

Do I just move on?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh sis, that whole situation sounds so fucked up and super sketchy. I can see why you've been stressing so hard about this.

Honestly moving on is probably the healthiest thing. You've blocked the number so they can't contact you anymore, which is good. But I know it'll be hard not to constantly worry about who it was.

My advice would be try your best not to dwell on it or speculate too much. Chances are you'll never know for sure anyways, and overthinking will just drive you crazy. Easier said than done, I know.

Focus on surrounding yourself with good friends you feel safe with. And lean on your real fam who you trust, not those toxic freaks. You don't deserve that kinda disrespect and abuse.

Be extra careful what details you share online from now on too, just in case. But try to get back to living your best life without constantly looking over your shoulder. You got this! Stay strong sis 💪

And if they try coming at you again, you know you've got my support 100%. We'll get through this shit together.

[Asker]

Thank you so much, I don’t even know if it’s him. But if it was I hope they get their karma. I am just gonna pretend that it didn’t happen. It only makes them look bad. Now I’m very careful.

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem luv, glad I could give some advice to help clear your mind. Dude sounds like a total creep if it was him, but you're right - dwelling on it won't change anything now. Best thing you can do is take this as a lesson to be more careful about who you talk to online in the future.

Good call to just pretend it didn't happen too. No need to give those losers any more of your energy. Hopefully karma comes back around for them eventually if they keep up that toxic behavior. But you stay focused on living your best life - that's the real karma.

And hey, don't be too hard on yourself either. We all screw up sometimes with people we think we can trust. You got this, just keep your head up! Feel free to hit me up if you ever need to vent or someone to talk to about stuff. You'll get through this for sure.

[Staximus]

Why the hell are you communicating with anonymous people online? This is all very weird and a stupid situation that you put yourself in. Stop putting yourself in stupid situations.

[Asker]

It was very stupid of me and 100% preventable if I were just more cautious.

[Anonymous]

Dysfunctional is an understatement. You need to get these people out of your life.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s bad. I feel so fucking stupid right now.

[Anonymous]

and what sort of content did you post on your OF?