Do you guys things I screw up this one?

[Evamo]

I m talking to guy online for coupe month now initially we had a great communication but lately he takes time to reply and I respect that as I never double text or ask why taking time But I think I screw everything up as we left off talking about him help his friends with painting his house and than text me a week later Ans he found me really sick and he told me “ he helped his friend but he isn’t a professional painter … ans he is hoping I’m having a lot of fun in my day :) I reapplied with this 2 text “ “Doing you best to help your friend is the most important :) “ I screw up this second text “ I’m having fun with migraines , fever and coughing my way to vomiting , it’s a real party ! Hope you days as entertaining as mine “ it was very sarcastic and kind of shi*** I don’t know why it did bother me this time so much that he took one week to reply and I’m for real sick but he read the text an she never replied and it’s been 3 days since then , I kinda start to like this guy so much and I’m not sure gets to do to fix it? Should I just set and wait? Or text him and say sorry? Please help , I don’t want to lose him For such stupid things , now additionally to been sick I’m so anxious because of this , what is he never text me again? What to do?

Updates

3 mo

He actually text me yesterday at night and he responded. Saying he feels sorry that I’m sick and he wishes he was here with me to help me and make sure I stay hydrated , and to be strong it will pass too.
I snared him couple hours later and I thanked him and …
But again is the same thing , I respond and just leave my text there and no answer from him.
I hate this broken communication , I know we are adults and busy and I don’t expect to talk to him everyday

[RoseySarah]

Nope you did not mess up he is slowly getting bored of you and life is getting more important.

Relationships ldr that happen to sliw down end. It's very normal and as much as you like him wanna talk forever he wants to live his life more.

Your doing amazing he is just slowly losing interest cause guys do that

[Evamo]

How can I keep him interested until we meet in person and see? We talked about meeting but it won’t be for neither few months ( we love in 2 different side of the country and we both busy working )

[Evamo]

And should I text him in few days or just leave him alone completely

[RoseySarah]

Just keep texting when you can. Be the friend there for him till you both can meet. Trying to had would push him away. Make you seem needy

Which you do need attention but he will only give so much!

[Evamo]

That’s what I been doing the last 2 month or so , I don’t double text him or ask why he takes time to answer, i told him if he needs anything I’m here for him and compliment hi
For his looks and Intelligent and hard work.
But I remember when we first started talking he mentioned how of introvert a bit he is and that he has moderate Asperger's syndrome , I’m not sure if that also have things to do with this dynamic , I want to ask him about it again but I’m not sure how to bring it up.

[RoseySarah]

It really depends but he might just be treating you like a friend now not a romantic date.

I can't imagine how hard it will be after a few dates him just leaving you on read for ages 😞.

Here is a big hug 🤗 you deserve someone wonderful to make you happy and give you the attention you desire and need.

[Evamo]

Thank you, yes I know it’s going to be even harder , I don’t really know why I feel
This way , I know he is just someone I met online and he doesn’t owe me anything , it’s just multiple time he told me how much he wants to feel our friendship and trust when we meet , and he will take me out and show me around and do things ans that. So I thought sending a text asking how are you isn’t that much , and I saw him last night connected on the app where we met but I get off immediately and went back like 10 min later and wasn’t in there ( we moved to text messages and we don’t communicate in the app anymore ) thank you for the kind words

[RoseySarah]

Your welcome and you deserve the affection back!

Hate how that happens you give so much they give so little like your on just ignoring at that point

[BoopBoopBeep]

You should call. Like someone who actually cares does. You don't give funeral notifications in text. You don't announce your wedding in text. If it matters you say it.

[Evamo]

What do you mean call him? We don’t call we just text and heat should i say anyways?

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you only text then you're already second class at best in his book. I text my accountant. I text my driver. I call the women in my life who are important. When they are having it rough I'm not going to send a text FFS I'd block anyone who did that to me and claimed to be someone of importance in my life.

[strateguy632]

your message was fine. continue as if it had not happened, ask how he is tell him how you are recovering.

[Evamo]

Do you really think isn’t that bad? Then why he didn’t even ask if I’m okay? I’m really sick and if the roles were reversed I will ask
About how he is doing and even offer to send meds etc
How long should I wait before reaching out , I really like him and it’s giving me an anxiety s being want to loose him for such stupid thing

[Staximus]

Who cares, it's just some guy you talk to online. He's not your boyfriend.

[Notherndude84]

He got busy with life it happens

[Evamo]

Should I reach out to him later in few days or just ignore him, I like him and don’t want to lose contact

[Roudyrebel8]

I don't think you screwed up