Where to meet someone?

Question

Where is a good place for a guy in their early thirties to meet a girl. I'm not particularly outspoken or charismatic. I'm told I'm really nice, funny and attractive. My interests are mainly in male dominated area's. Motorbikes, video games, building things, engineering, travel. Most of my friends are already married with kids so not meeting anyone new through gatherings. Have absolutely no luck with any of the dating apps (paid or not). Tried singles events but like I said I'm not really charismatic enough to have any luck there. Same with bars and such. Feels like I've tried everything and just can't catch a break. Like I haven't had a girlfriend at all in my life. Just a couple one night things. So open to suggestions?

sawno · Accepted Answer

I'm in the same boat, male dominated everything with hardly any girls around and on top of that I can't handle loud music and dislike alcohol. That eliminates basically every prospect of meeting someone. So once I am physically ready for it (Currently still rehabilitating) I plan to go to speed dating events. That way the intentions are clear, and since my type is somewhat rare and also sticks to herself a lot of the time it will hopefully be a quick way to filter trough incompatible girls while also directly getting an impression of our vibe together rather than it all being about looks.

slatyb · Accepted Answer

Travel? How about some tours for single? Music festivals?
Charisma comes with practice. I greet every server I meet. When I return and greet them by name I get great service. If I weren't married I could probably get dates.

Ask your friends if they know someone they could introduce you to.

I was a bit older than you when I divorced and online dating worked well for me. I used match -- the women that were paying to be members were at least serious.

laly520 · Accepted Answer

my first meeting with person ever would be simply going to sip coffee or walk somewhere nice

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

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elew4too · Answer

Do extracurricular activities: game with women online; go to workout classes and yoga; go to makerspaces to do your side engineering projects; play rec sports; walk your dog at the dog park, etc. Do the activities you love with other people in your community. Sometimes, you may not meet many available women there, but those men/taken women you meet may lead you in positive directions. You'll develop your charisma in the process too