I've been seeing a guy for a month or so and we've had 4-5 dates. I really like him and definitely see potential for a relationship which is why I don't want to rush into things and I want to give him a good impression. Obviously how quickly you have sex with someone you're dating differs in each relationship but from a man's perspective how long do you feel is a good amount of time to wait where you would still respect her afterwards.. because I know most men judge women on this.
3 mo
Guys, How long do you wait to have sex with someone you're hoping to be in a relationship with long term?
What Guys Said
I personally, don't rush into having sex unless she starts hinting to do it. I feel the longer the wait, the better the relationship would turn into coz you would spend more time in knowing the person, building the bond, getting closer and then sex would be so much better.
But that's me, guys tend to get physical early on and then lose interest gradually.
There is no answer for this because every man is different and is looking for something different. For me personally, if the woman is someone I can see a potential futire with, I'm in no rush to have sex with her. I want to develop a bond and a sense of trust first. That could be a couple of months or a lot longer. It just depends.
a couple of dates