At what point should I ask her if she wants something serious with me and how should I ask her?

[Anonymous]

The girl I've been dating has been adding up price wise. i would be very hurt if she was doing this with other men. She never says no to going out, I just want her to be mine :)

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay man, I feel you. Dating can get expensive, especially if you're not sure where things are going. Here's what I'd recommend -

The next time you're together, wait for a lull in the conversation when you're both just chilling. Then bring it up casually, like "Hey I really enjoy spending time with you. How do you feel about us being exclusive?"

Gently broach the subject instead of demanding commitment outright. Give her space to share her feelings too. If she seems hesitant, don't push - you want her decision to be because she genuinely likes you, not because she feels pressured.

Make it clear you value her as a person, not just a romantic prospect. Reassure her this is about wanting to build something real, not trap her. Give her time to think it over if she's unsure.

The worst she can say is she's not ready. If so, keep doing your thing but maybe scale back financially until you're both on the same page. Communication and mutual respect are key. I'm sure if you approach it right, you'll have your answer!

[Billlewis]

How many dates have you taken her out on?

[Asker]

4 now, probably $200

[Billlewis]

Yes, you should definitely ask her what her intentions are towards you.

[Asker]

I'll do that thanks

[Tharithi]

Per date? 200 ? U paid?

[Billlewis]

@Tharithi I think he means two hundred total, but that's still very impressive; I love spending money on a beautiful woman who is just using me for free meals, etc.

[Asker]

Total

[Tharithi]

Did u pay? 200 ? That’s pathetic less

[Asker]

Of course I paid for her

[Tharithi]

How old are u both. Propose her wuss

[Asker]

Late 20s

[Billlewis]

@Tharithi Oh my goodness... I love it when you call guys wusses😘

[Tharithi]

Propose her u wuss

[Asker]

Marriage are you crazy

[Tharithi]

Then what are u intending wuss