Why are people on here so triggered by being ghosted? It means they don't like u, so why is that so hard to comprehend?

[DreamLife7]

sad but the truth is they aren't interested. So whats the point of dwelling on it, expecting them to explain and reaching out for validation?

[Caramalkisses23]

Everyone looks at a situation from a different perspective. You said "why are people on here so triggered by being ghosted?" and then you added "they aren't interested, so what's the point of dwelling on it." I think some people focus on the other person not being interested and "why was I ghosted" rather than just move on. Especially if they really liked that person, they may want to know what it is about themselves the other person didn't like. Let's say this... you just took the time to write a question based on how other people react in a situation because it's different from how you would react, right? Imagine me asking the question "why are you so bothered that other people are triggered by being ghosted? That's there life and it doesn't affect you." It basically as if you're taking the time to judge someone else because they don't react or respond to situations the same as you, which isn't fair in general. What I'm trying to say is everyone is different. We are all raised in different environments that shapes us to become who we are. Which is why some people will break up when being cheated on- and others will forgive and stay. Different mindsets.

[DreamLife7]

Girl, just say you were ghosted and couldn't handle it, lol. The end

[Caramalkisses23]

Sweetie, I’m married to my high school sweetheart. You asked a question, I answered. Don’t get triggered by my answer cause you care about how someone else handles a situation. lol.

[DreamLife7]

If you were so married, you wouldn't have commented on a post you claim doesn't apply to you. Cute failed attempt at reversed psychology. You get ghosted and can't cope. I get it shrug 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Caramalkisses23]

I answer any question I want whether it apply’s to me or not. If I feel like I have an answer- I comment. How old are you? I feel like I’m going back and forth with a 16yo. lol. Grow up!

[DreamLife7]

Nope you got ghosted and now you're mad 😠 🤣

[desidoll]

I notice most people whether it is online or real life, they are only triggered by it when it happened to them. I remember telling a friend of mine and my sister about my experience getting ghosted by some guys in the past, they told me to stfu and move on because it was a small issue. When it finally happened to them, they made me their free therapist because they were so “hurt” 🙄

[DreamLife7]

Telling u to stfu was rude and unnecessary but u do agree w/the moving on part.

[razelove]

I think it's a lack of experience. Like I had the same impotent anger when I started playing the field, had a good date, would sleep with a woman, then wouldn't hear from her again.

Something clicks enough to get busy, but not enough to date. It is what it is, and you keep moving through people until you find someone that you do want to date. I don't think the experience really kicks in (if at all) until they're on the other side of that equation a couple times, where someone really wants them, but they realize all they wanted was to smash, not have this person anywhere in their life.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Seems that ghosted is just another method of communication that a lot of people take offense to. Maybe I've been ghosted and maybe I've ghosted others, but I'm not sure what it means, perhaps it's a different definition for every person. There are times when I don't reach out to others and times that I will.

[DreamLife7]

Right, ghosting communicates they aren't interested. The end. I don't know what people here don't get

[MikeTheBartender]

Unless it was something really special like she met my family or something, I almost prefer it. Less drama. I treat all my relationships like tennis, I hit the ball and don't move until they hit the ball back. So if they are ghosting me, I am not the type to give them drama or whatever, to me it's a more calm ending to something that wasn't going to work out anyway.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Personally, I'm not bothered at all but you have to understand a lot of people on this site have issues and most of them have abandonment issues. So I guess that's why that triggers them so much

[DreamLife7]

🤣😆 I should not be laughing but I noticed they had issues within the first couple of weeks. Its like their thought process is stuck in preschool. The shit they say isn't normal nor realistic for their age group. Like zero common sense, low self esteem, no self respect and just off. They need therapy not gag. But that's on them

[laly520]

it doesn't bother me personally