Why do people give hot and cold behaviors? how do you respond to it?

[bobalife]

It gets draining and not very appealing for me, I may lose interest faster. But I am curious.

[sheikalana]

Sometimes people are not aware that they're giving a hot and cold vibe. For me is very easy. If you're talking about dating a person who's truly into you and interested in you is always going to be very clear with their intentions. If you're feeling a hot and cold vibe just move on.

[LaurenM1997]

my ex boyfriend used to go hot and cold on me I would ask him if he would come round to keep me company his response “maybe” 🙃

[shortster]

Hot is when they are excited and cold when they are worn out

[NathanDavis]

that's my favorite Katy Perry's song...

[Summeroflove]

Yup same here. It usually kills interest. It could be someone isn’t mentally stable or they could be playing games. It just depends.

[bobalife]

I’m glad you can understand. Why do you think people played those type of games? How do you respond to those type of behaviors?

[Summeroflove]

It depends I think some don’t know what they want. Others wanna see the reaction. Others wanna hook up and then forget about it. Until they wanna hook up again

[bobalife]

Thanks, this was really insightful and helpful :) wished I read a response like this a while ago.

[Summeroflove]

Your welcome

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't respond to it nor will I deal with it. I don't like that mixed signals garbage 😒

[IloveWinters]

I think they are not so confident people, they must be having self esteem issues

[sirderpsalot123]

I just move on, waste of time.