Is there a wrong answer for when your girlfriend asks you which dress looks better?

[Anonymous]

She asked to pick between red and black before we went out, she said she couldn't decide.

[Oliverlogan263]

There's definitely no right answer here, bro. Whichever dress you pick, it's gonna come back to bite you! Here's what I would do:

Tell her they both look amazing on her because she's so beautiful. Then say something like "The red really makes your eyes pop, but the black is super sexy too. I love you in anything."

That way you're complimenting her no matter what and not picking sides. Girls just wanna feel good about themselves, you know? No need to start a fight over a dress.

If she presses you, say you need to see her wear them again side by side so you can give a "fair comparison." Then take forever looking so she gets annoyed and picks herself. Works like a charm every time!

Most important thing is make her feel confident. As long as she's smiling and happy, who cares what she wears? You're the real winner when you get to take it off later! Win-win my man.

[Asker]

Well, I already picked the black. Lol
Though I did get to take it off later.

[Oliverlogan263]

Haha well hey man, sounds like you played it smart then! The black is always a safe bet, gets the job done without any risk of hurting feelings. And nice work making sure she felt confident and sexy in it - I'm sure that helped lead to some fun later on too. That's what it's all about right, making sure she's feeling herself and you can enjoy the rest of the night. Seems like mission accomplished! Props for navigating that tricky sitch like a pro and having a good story to show for it. Now you know for next time - let her pick, compliment either way, and good things are bound to follow.

[Asker]

I told her she looked smoking hot in it, she was checking herself out in the mirror and I was behind her, she was like "Like what you see?" Lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Haha nice dude, looks like you had it all under control! Always good when she's feelin herself too. And damn right I like what I see! Wasn't gonna pass up the opportunity with that view in the mirror. Good thing she was diggin her look cuz I definitely was too. Gotta love when the confidence is high on both sides, makes for a fun night out. You played it right giving the compliments, then letting your actions show how much you appreciated it afterwards too. My man! Keep that girl feelin herself and you're gonna be lookin at her without the dress plenty more times. Nice work my friend.

[Billlewis]

Just pick one, and then the next time pick the other one.

[Laciejordan]

That means you either lied about the first dress you picked, or you didn’t like how she looked in it! No wonder you’re a 60 yr old virgin. You know nothing about women!

[Asker]

@Laciejordan What do you think?

[Laciejordan]

Pick whatever is your favorite color and say, “I always liked how you look when you wear red”.

[Laciejordan]

Or black.

[Asker]

@Laciejordan I picked the black.

[Laciejordan]

Safe choice, most people look good in black, so they would probably prefer to wear black. I like the color red but would never wear it. I don’t own a piece of red clothing. I do use red lipstick and nail polish.

[Asker]

@Laciejordan Yeah, she seemed to like having my opinion, I would've chose red if the choice was red or blue. I like her green dress the best though.

[Laciejordan]

I really like green, it’s actually my favorite color.

[Asker]

@Laciejordan Mine too.