Is hugging by the end of date a good sign?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just had a date…

I knew it would go well,

So, my friend initially liked this guy,

He told me he liked me from the moment he saw me but he saw me hugging and dancing with the blond guy who was looking at me like he was in love with me and thought I was taken and we were in a relationship.

Today, we had a first date, and by the end when he drove me home, he hugged me and told me He wants to keep me warm because it was windy.

He then told me he likes me and wants to meet me again.

He was pretty nice actually and seems to be very smart and educated.

I never imagined he would be so nice when I saw him in clubs.

He told me he didn’t ask my friend out again, because he didn’t get that feeling,

but he always liked me and wanted to have a chance to meet me.

It was nice actually. Next date will be a movie date. He was looking for movies for us to go to.

Next week, I’ll go on a date with another guy, to make sure, I don’t catch feelings for any of them.

Updates

1 mo

He opened the car doors for me, he held my hands to make them warm - as they are always cold.

He also told me - He loves the feeling he got after meeting me and that he wants to meet me again and likes me.

[TightLipps]

Hugging could mean he really likes you, therefore, he wants to come off as a good-guy; or hugging could mean, he really doesn't like you in that way, but he sees you as a friend. Here's a little secret from a 13-year-old; simply ask him, "do you see me as a friend, or do you see me as being more than just a friend", (and just like magic flying out of Snow White's butt) life becomes very simple & very clear.

[7Phoenix7]

Lol your last comment 🤣.

Yeah, a hug is good. I'm glad you had a nice time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hehe, it can’t be only men - who are players 😁

[Drew-1990]

Sounds like he is more of a gentleman or cautious how far he goes with you, which is not bad. I think a hug is a good sign honestly. If I reached to hug a girl it definitely means something for me personally. I would be afraid honestly to try and kiss a girl too soon.

[Mr_twoface]

Any true gentleman should regardless on how the date went, give their date a hug before leaving! It's the least gentle thing to do.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think the date went pretty well, he also kept my hand in his hands, because my hands are always cold.

[Mr_twoface]

That's sweet! Let's see how next one will be ;)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was usually kissed by the end of first date, unless I didn’t like the guy and showed with the body language that I am unwilling to kiss.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s the first time I am hugged, felt good, It’s been such a long time, I haven’t hugged anyone.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Now he’s texting me a lot. I hope he didn’t like me too much.

[Mr_twoface]

lol. Usually french kissed or what? Interesting its ur first hug. I never kissed someone on the first date. Maybe second or third.

[Mr_twoface]

lol... thats the aftermath of having a good date. Eager to go onto the next :D

[DryGermanGuy]

I am not usually a hugger, so if I give a hug, it means something. Other cultures (Italian, French…) have as a standard way more body-contact, of course.

[molonski2]

Its of course a massive positive , and a lovely way to end the evening may I say , sounds like a really nice guy , gentleman.

[stratford]

It depends on three things:

1. Where his hands go (bear or moving to lower back)

2. How close you hug

3. How does he position his head (close to yours looking for a kiss)

[DagonbroughtMehere]

It is a good sign, but be wary, What seems the Gentleman now can be a monster later.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why would he be a monster?

[DagonbroughtMehere]

A colloquialism, dear, I have seen many a 'Gentlemen' turn into bastards once they get what they want from a courtship, My Cousin is one such case, Her Boyfriend started out a good man but as soon as She let Him move in and they had a kid, She became His slave, His Income, His tool against Her own family, She kicked Him out in the end, but the sting of His abuse changed Her.

[BCRanger10]

I wouldn't read too much into it. I mean... you wouldn't shake your date's hand at the end of the night. I think it's a polite gesture more than anything.

[ShadowHunter123]

I think that he's just being a gentleman and being a little flirtatious. You are lucky to find a good guy like that. Most guys now days will sadly go for your ass, because they think if they show dominance the lady will give in and fall in love. I warn you to be careful of that. Unless you like that. Do you?

[miadee]

Sounds like bare minimum. He's just being polite. He does those things to every date. Good sign he's a gentleman but don't take it personal.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Next week, I’ll go on a date with another guy, to make sure, I don’t catch feelings for any of them". WTF is this about?

[Juxtapose]

Degenerate, evil cultural norms are to blame. This is someone who is afraid to feel something real and they are playing with men's feelings.

And before some feminist starts ranting and raving at me, yes, it's wrong when men do it too.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Juxtapose She is big on "foodie calls", but she is hot so men let her get away with it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Say sorry, I am paying for myself. ;) I am not a beggar in need of free meals.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Don’t mistake me for the trashy people you date ;)

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. How many free dinners have you had this year?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

None. I have gladly paid for them all myself :) Now get the fuck out and talk with the type of women you are obviously used to talking - who’ll only spend time with you to eat a meal.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. You haven't taken one free meal on a date this year? 😏😏😏

[DL1210]

Scary and disturbing

[ProbablyClueless]

Hugging at the end of the date is a very good sign. Although I'm not sure that someone concerned about catching feelings should be dating.

[MsBrie]

It can be but the bad boy i mention to you about was too comfortable to get physical.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How do you know he is a bad boy? 😁

[MsBrie]

First off, he lied about gang affiliation to my father but all it took was me seeing hi with no shirt and for me doing a background check on him and meeting his friends to show he hadn't given it up.

secondly, when he was in county jail i was suppose to spend $8,000 to get him out without question and without telling me what he did to wind up there he had me followed after i wouldn't.

lastly, he beat up my cousin after he exposed him to the rest of the fam.

STAY WAY FROM BAD BOYS, ladies! Gangs are evil!

[JosyJosy]

Just don't give him a stiff "friend" hug and it's a good sign.

[Goku1001]

It's normal! Neither good nor bad! It's something natural and good practice! 😜

[elaphe]

I would say it is a good thing. Yu wouldn't want to hug somebody you don't like.

[laly520]

a hug by end of the date is always a good sign

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like a perfect date that ended well

[NathanDavis]

why are your hands always cold?

[LittleMelissa9614]

I think that's a good sign😊

[LaurenM1997]

It’s a good sign yeah 🙂

[Nikki1989]

For a bad date, maybe.

[RingOfFire]

It's actually a very very bad sign.