Might be forever alone?

[Anonymous]

I am a 25 year old female. I have had one relationship my entire life which was basically a “high school sweetheart” relationship (from age 14-18). The relationship ended badly after 4-5 years and now fast forward I have never had a relationship since. Because I was a kid at the time, I have never had a real adult relationship. All my friends have married/had kids and so I don’t have any friends anymore as they have all moved on in life. I am completely alone and worried I will never get married or have kids. I don’t know what to do about it, any advice?

[petitedollbabee]

Well for starters, stop comparing your life to everyone else’s lives. Most people these days are not married or have had kids by 25, so your ex-friends are not the majority.
We all go through life at our own pace. There’s no rush for marriage. There’s a slight rush for kids, due to your biological clock as a woman, but that’s only if you want them - which more and more women these days don’t, and that’s your choice to make.
As for having no friends, get out and about if you want friends. Go meet people. Attend social events and introduce yourself, etc. And if you don’t actually want friends and you’re happy being a ‘loner’, then that’s okay too! You’re in charge of your own life. You’re not helpless when it comes to friendships and relationships. Move at your own pace and stop comparing yourself to others.

[Asker]

Yeah I am worried about the “biological clock” and my 80yr old grandpa really wants to see me get married before he passes, both of those are making it more time pressing. But ignoring those aspects, I’ve wanted a boyfriend for 7 years now but nobody is interested and I don’t really know many people anymore. As far as friends, that’s not as important to me. My last group of friends (10 people) all really destroyed me in the end anyway and I was friends with all of them for 15 years… I see friends as pointless in a sense because they come and go. At this age I just really want to get a place with someone, get married and have kids not worry about drama with friends

[JonesT10Apr]

don't think too much... first have friends and participate in family events... talk with your aunty... like that... don't worry much... have some woman 30 to 35 age group friends who u can trust...

Ur time will come... definitely for your patience you will get better... and you'll be happier... be with smile...

[Anonymous]

Only through God will this be possible. You are trying to find a good man in a fallen world. Trying to do so, within the biological time limits and without consulting the one who knows all... is foolish.

[Jay-_-]

God loves you and you will never be alone you are cared for more then you know I'm sure of it ✝️🙏🏼

[Kinkyhubby]

Your 25 years old. You have a whole life. Joins club, meet people with similar activities. I was married n divorced by 22, and didn't get married again to 35. You have time.

[Staximus]

Start trying to meet people and make new friends

[ballweevil]

same here, so honestly already accepted my future of being alone forever