Guys this is a hard one- I met an 18 year old guy and we literally fell for each other the same night and can't go with one another since then. When we met I didn't know how old he was, but I assumed about 22 or something, since he is really mature, but came out he is 18!!! Since we are living in different countries we aren't seeing each other since that same night, but we are calling literally every day and organising to see each other again soon. He is very mature, at times it feels like he's more mature than me (and I have to say that I am even too mature for my age).. however it's not the maturity part for me that scares me or the he might not be serious, because he is assuring me every day how serious he is. It is that he is well.. 18 and has so much ahead that I already lived.. like I am afraid that we might get together because it feels like it a lot and that I will spend my time seeing a future with him, while he is well.. maybe growing into another direction after all since he hasn't "lived" as much as I have.. I don't know, maybe it's not important to him or something, but I am really afraid of wasting my life, while his will not be as wasted if he decides with 23 years to leave me and I will be left alone with 29 and yea.. I don't want it to sound like I am desperate to have a forever man by my side by now, but I really don't want to waste these years if it's meant to fail anyway.. it saddens me a lot and I am even crying writing this down, because well.. I really like him and he really likes me and right now it feels like we were meant for each other and it kinda also feels like forever, but forever is a long time and an even longer one when you are.. well.. 18.. I hope someone understands and has any helpful advice.. thanks
24 y/o girl dating an 18 y/o boy.. is it weird? Is it doomed to fail? Help guys?
