I’m an independent woman who don’t need no man… so how come I got used by guys and dumped like trash?

[Anonymous]

Guys say I look innocent and then they ply me and use me and dump me like gRbage. I ended up in a submissive role with men and it sucks.

[HighValue]

The attitude of being an independent woman that doesn't need a man is what repels good men, so you are left with only low quality ones. Now you wasted your good years on those low quality types and have very few options.

Choices have consequences in life, regardless of how much wishful thinking people try to have.

[RavVid]

Maybe you still want one and either don't choose appropriately or you don't treat them right, so they dump and leave.

Rethink what you do want I think. It sounds as though you want a relation ship in which case you should look for guys who want the same.

[glennos89]

If you don't need a man you are not relationship material from a guys perspective. The only thing that guys want from you is sex but nothing more then that ,🤷🏼‍♂️

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes personalities just don't line up. You can be the hottest number in the world, but if you aren't what the guy is looking for; you won't appeal to him.

[DryGermanGuy]

You basically answered your own question. Obviously you were not that independent woman who needs no man. Savvy?

[I_Am_Loner0405]

Because the men you want don’t want an “independent woman”

[NathanDavis]

I guess you independently decided to allow guys to keep doing that to you...

[dudeinohio]

Perhaps you have an attitude and exert your independence. Guys sense you don't seek. anything log term, so they just use you

[RANDOMGUY2323]

Typically guys hate being the second I mean we're competitive by nature

[Anonymous]

Your too easy left them play you. play them back

[Anonymous]

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