Should a man wake up before or after his girlfriend?

Question

Hideous · Accepted Answer

To me, it wouldn't matter. I wouldn't think he is less deserving of my respect and love just because he wakes up and gets up after I did. Some people get by with little sleep, some people need those 8 hours of rest whereas others need more hours to fully recharge their batteries. If he needed more sleep than I did, I'd let him sleep as long as he needed to because his health would matter to me a lot more than what others think about this subject.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There's no rule! It depends on the couple. Some girls love waking up to snuggles, so their boyfriend might wait. Others are early birds who need their alone time with coffee. The best thing is talk to your girlfriend and see what she prefers. A happy medium like cuddling before the alarm goes off could be perfect!

Sharkstealth · Accepted Answer

That sounds like a traditional value question. If it's Saturday or Sunday no matter. If it's a working day they should be up at the same time. The homemaker cooks breakfast while the bread winner makes himself appear professional to earn the bread. Notice I did not distinguish the sexes in the roles. We need to modernize the situation to today's standards. Now I don't have a clue the outcome if the sexes are unknown.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Always before you don't want to look lazy and not on your purpose in life. Get your ass out of bed

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I don't believe there is any law on this subject.

AviatorTom · Answer

Doesn't matter, depends on several things.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

A husband must wake up before his wife, but usually a wife wakes up before so she prepares his meal and breakfast but on the weekends i believe that the housewife should have more sleep since her husband will be off, also the studies showed that women needs more sleep than men...

DrPepper12 · Answer

She won't have to worry about fighting with you for the bathroom cuz you're already done and it gives you an opportunity to prep yourself and her for the day. Unless of course it's Saturday or Sunday, then you fuck like rabbits and in between watch Netflix / read a book while you decide what you want from DoorDash.

RebelinSteel · Answer

When he feels like it or the alarm goes off.

mono_gram · Answer

They should wake up at the same exact time, to the second.  Jokes aside, I don't think it should really matter. Just wake up whenever you want/need to.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not necessarily, he can always wake up the same time as her. But, it'd probably be really nice to wake up to this vision.

Fireguy17 · Answer

yes.
It depends, is he a morning person, or does he stay up all night and doesn't get up until 10 or so, or does that apply to you?
Why is it important about who gets up first.
I have never run into that ever.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Before his girlfriend, somehow it seems comedic or poetic, that somehow, someone in the relationship always sets their own apartment for their own earlier wake up, even by just 1 minute difference lol ⏰⏰⏰⏰

Miristheiss · Answer

There is no should. Whatever is natural and each couple will be different. There is no should about it, as if there is a right and wrong. It doesn't matter.

Anonymous · Answer

Who cares about the timetable? Everyone is free to wake up when they want,

A relationship is not a jail everyone is still the individual he/she was before + a supportive person you love and supports you through this life.

RavVid · Answer

If you don't wake up before her how are you going to wake her up for early morning sex? They complain but they like complaining about it.

JacobJordan · Answer

He should wake up when he wakes up. We don't do alarms sometimes my wide is up first sometimes I am.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Depends on his schedule. We are both up at 6am 7 days a week.

Flower7 · Answer

After so she has time to make herself look presentable first.

Plufem · Answer

I prefer he wakes after me, saves me the embarassment of being completely nude again, Lol!

Xia1994 · Answer

Whoever is finished sleeping man or woman in the relationship should get up first

Friendlybro79 · Answer

They should wake up at the exact time every day or their relationship is ruined. Seriously we're talking exactly or doom.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I don't think it really matters, I think generally men get up earlier but it ain't that deep...

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

It shouldn't matter who wakes up first or goes to bed after, so long as you can both find time to be together and be separated when needed

IslaTheWitch · Answer

when he is rested enough to wake up

purplepoppy · Answer

After so she's had time to cook his breakfast.

laly520 · Answer

it doesn't matter

Anonymous · Answer

Before, so he can draw on her face before she wakes up!

Apple1996 · Answer

Before cause I'm not a morning person

LazerBean · Answer

Who cares

poshspice123 · Answer

Whattt how does it matter?

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I really don’t think it matters

sheikalana · Answer

It doesn't really matter!

Anonymous · Answer

After so she can make him breakfast.

Rangers · Answer

What the hell does it matter?

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

I want breakfast in bed!

jahaims · Answer

Doesn't matter at all

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

What does it matter?

Purpleronnie · Answer

Who cares !

HelpfulWoman · Answer

whenever

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh doesn’t matter depends on our plans after

WhitneySnow · Answer

Same time

Peridot25 · Answer

That’s a thing? 🤨

Awantika03 · Answer

Before

spicythunder · Answer

it doesn't matter

Should a man wake up before or after his girlfriend?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Should a man wake up before or after his girlfriend?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.