Do most girls hate nerdy guys?

[Anonymous]

Nerdy guys get termed as beta, boring, and bookish. Girls make fun of us behind our backs and make jokes about us starting from high school. Girls reply to us rudely even if try to initiate casual conversation yet they giggle when popular guys make sexist jokes. We are seen as a homework helper in high school or college, otherwise no girl will even talk to us. Popular media, movies, and TV shows always show nerdy guys as pathetic. Girls tell us, "Guys like you are only good after thirty" when we approach them.

Later in life girls are only interested in you if you have a good job, they love the money but low-key hate those men as a person. I don't know, this is what have seen in my whole life so far.

[Anonymous]

Most girls aren’t that bad. Some girls are yeah but they don’t matter anyways. They never get the type of men they want either. They get some players…. But not the type of men they want.


You may not be all womens cup of tea. But they will be honest and turn you down respectfully and don’t hate you personally. Just not attracted. But you’ll find someone if you do right. If you’re a pervert though good luck.

[Squatting_Slav]

Essentially what they refer to is men who have no backbone or possess incel like behaviours towards women

Genuine intelligent, successful and smart men, women love as long as they're men, and don't act all goofy and socially inept lol

[jennifer_bloom]

Mature people do not judge you based on how animated and exciting you are cause they relate to you as an intellectual and not as a paid clown show. I feel sorry for people who think they have to entertain others to be important to the world.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Nah, I've mostly been interested in nerdy guys. Don't know if I'm in the minority or what then

[genericname85]

no they don't. nerdy guys just tend to overthink and go through social interactions in their head, reaching conclusions before they actually went out and talked to a girl. that's why they assume no girl wants them when they never even spoke to one in the first place. and don't give me the "but i spoke to one and it didn't work" bullshit. if you didn't speak to 100 yet, you didn't try.

[dolemite58]

Hate is a strong word lol girls ignore nerdy guys in their prime but settle down with them when their options aren’t as good anymore. Then they have this very disingenuous, self congratulatory epiphany like I married a nerdy guy I just didn’t know I liked them til I wasn’t pretty anymore 🤣🤣

[Abbycado]

You’re pretty bad at making generalizations, you know that?

[Asker]

I have described my experiences in life so far and I have specified that in the post, not generalising

[Abbycado]

Sure it is. You are using personal experience that will be limited to your life to sum us all up.

[Abbycado]

That’s pretty much the definition of generalizing.

“make a general or broad statement by inferring from specific cases”

[Asker]

The incentive to put up a question was to get answers from others, in or against.

[Asker]

That's what I have seen so far and those things do take place. By your attack, perhaps you low-key hate nerdy guys too... who knows

[IslaTheWitch]

no idea, I'm a total nerd, my husband was nerdy, we married in our 20s :D

[SolitarySolace]

Girls hate boys in general

The demoralization of Boys and Men - https://youtu. be/Zg8DfeDw04I? si=XRXlBtphwf3wmtF7

[SolitarySolace]

https://youtu.be/Zg8DfeDw04I?si=XRXlBtphwf3wmtF7

[Dnice1]

No I love nerdy guys they can be fun to play video games with and be really sweet too 😊

[itsclearlynicholas]

Nice dont always finish last - there is a devil after all lol 👿😈 lol! 🤣

[JayBones2469]

Who the fuck cares. Girls are trash.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope