Guys, am I right, or am I right?

[ApplePie409]

This is why online dating doesn’t work….

Men take the carpet bombing approach. They copy and paste the same reply to hundreds of girls. The guys doing this are 8’s, 9’s and 10’s. The girls on the receiving end are 2-10. Why would a guy who’s a 10 message a girl who’s a 3? Because she’s not plan A or B or C, she’s more like plan F. But, hey, any port in a storm. It’s 1:00 am. Plans A-E fell through.

Mike: Hey, Sally, I was just thinking about you.

Sally: You were?

Mike: Yes. Are you busy right now?

Online dating doesn’t work, because most guys are dirty rotten scoundrels, and most women are stupid. That woman who’s a 4, now believes she’s a 10, because she received a message from a guy who’s a 10. Great, awesome, wonderful guys who are 5-7, don’t stand a chance. I know a woman who’s been on the same dating site for 15 years. She blames the guys for her own stupidity.

My advice?

1. Go out into the real world.

2. Stop with your stupid anti-feminist crap.

3. Find a way to shed your fear. You’re not dealing with velociraptors,

4. Become a wordsmith. It takes practice, but you can do it.

5. Learn a few tricks from PUA, like negging.

[Chazmatazz269]

“Dirty Rotten Scoundrels” is a brilliant flick!
But you’re not right. You’d be closer to right if your closing advice were for women, not men.
Women have been liberated, sister! You know your worth and you know what you want. Go out and get it! You know, WE aren’t velociraptors either. Ell oh ell!
The average woman just isn’t worth what she demands in time, energy and money anymore. Smart men aren’t playing that game because the risks outweigh the rewards now. Hell even some of the dumb ones have smart friends warning them off.
I can’t help but wonder why you’re so invested in keeping men in our old, oppressive gender stereotypes though. Why can’t we have a brave new world like the ladies?

[ApplePie409]

This makes no sense. But then, this is GAG.

[Juxtapose]

Men carpet bomb because long, thoughtful initial messages get met with absolute silence the vast majority of the time.

[ApplePie409]

You are 100% correct.

Sally knows she's a 10, because Fabio said so.


The carpet bombers are the top tier.
You proved my point. Online dating doesn't work.

[Juxtapose]

Sometimes it can work but it's hard for men and women for different reasons.

[ApplePie409]

You can meet your next match while skydiving.

[Juxtapose]

That works for women because random guys you go around will hit on you.

[ApplePie409]

Being away from the keyboard helps even the playing field.

[Juxtapose]

I go out in public too ya know :P

Still though, you could take a walk in the same neighborhood as me for 30 days and I could do the same thing. I guarantee you will be hit on more than me and I'm not even a bad looking guy in my opinion.

[ApplePie409]

My point is that looks can only take you so far. Online, it's enough. In the real world, you're going to need "game."

I was shocked when my grandma told me that peacocks were boy birds.


Peahens are nothing special. lol

[Juxtapose]

I am autistic. I don't have "game", I have honesty and sincere intent.

Peacocks 🦚 are pretty cool 😎

[Juxtapose]

"Game" seems like something for kids.

[Purpleronnie]

I actually agree with your points there and certainly on the game & wordsmith aspects. Putting myself in the rather stylish shoes 👠 of the above averagely attractive Colleen , the would be suitors are many and varied. So the after passing the look good , dresses well , smell good level of observation, , confidence , sharpness , intelligence , communication skills and sense of humor play key parts under the guise of “game” and will matter !. The trouble I have with this arrangement is that some of what constitutes “game” is obviously gained through experience which can lead to guys believing that that modern day lothario’s and become cocky players. Personally it’s a game of poker to me , I never show my hand but bluff really really well.

[Abhinav03]

Yeah it doesn't work in real life few years back I joined it under the impression from what we see in country like usa from distant and perception was its quite easy.

But that's far from reality understabily girls are hesistant beacuse of fear I did manage to meet a few but it never materialised to something worthwhile and over the time it started feeling like these app are just making money out of our desperation for company, sex etc.

[Iron_Man]

I actually saw that movie many years ago

[war_daddy]

haha negging.