Did that guy have every right to roast me?

[AmazonChick171]

I asked a question about why some people bitch at tall women for wearing heels. I (a 6’4” woman) was explaining that people mocked me harshly and my ex boyfriend dumped me for embarrassing him when I wore my four inch heels that made me 6’8”. Some dumb guy ROSTED me for not getting his “truth”.
I was who shocked that I couldn’t say nothing. Guys are so brutally blunt.

[ManOnFire]

Fuck what he says. I love tall women, and you sound super hot to be 6 foot. He's probably some short dude with a small dick and feels bad about himself. That's not your fault or your problem.

Is wearing 4 inch heels a little much? Maybe. But not because you're already tall, but simply because wearing heels like that eventually mess up your feet, but that's assuming you wear them all the time. And I don't think you do.

[DJB72]

Nope.

So you're 6'4". So what? You can't help your height unless you're on two tin legs.

You want to wear heels? Wear them! No guy who knows who he is will be threatened and if they are that's their issue. If you're tall then that's no reason to dress in a particular way, just as much as it would be if you were short.

Dress for yourself. If he can't handle it then it's his loss, not yours.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are 6' 4", you know that makes you stick out like a sore thumb, so you wear 4" heels to make it even worse. What do you expect? You are making a spectacle of yourself and people are reacting to the show you are putting on.

[AmazonChick171]

Wow….. so you’re saying it’s my fault? I don’t wear heels all the time but wherever I put them on, I get shit for it. What if it’s a 5’8 girl wearing four inch heels, would you give her shit for it? It’s unfair that tall women get crap for wearing heels.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is unfair that you are 6' 4". It's unfair that he is 5' 7" and had a girlfriend who is 6' 4". That is not your fault and that is not his fault. But then you insist on wearing 4" heels; in the grand scheme of things, you decided to make that important. I don't know why, but you knowingly and intentionally made it worse. Yes, that part is your fault.

[DryGermanGuy]

OlderAndWiser, you are wasting your time with this one. She is a special sort of obtuse. With 6' 8", she might as well wear a large illuminated hat to get really the attention of every last person around.

[OlderAndWiser]

@DryGermanGuy Right you are!

[renodnol32]

No he didn't. Anyone can feel like a champion behind a screen with no repercussions. No one will dare say it to your face. You should expose this gag user. I would love to give him a piece of my mind. He was incredibly rude and disrespectful for something that is not his place to be. If i am dating a woman that is taller than me and if she's wearing heels, i am no one to stop her.

[JacobJordan]

This is what I am talking about dear. You have got to stop letting things like this bother you. And you have got to change something so you stop attracting guys that mistreat you.

[Surely]

He probably thought he was being funny. But he didn’t need to be so harsh about it! Please stop lumping all guys together as being haters of extra tall women. Then you need to accept guys reasonable wishes and get on with life!

[noohair]

You are dealing with children and they might be 30 or 40 so fuck them. The right person is out there. I don't engage with morons here. I don't ask questions, just answer them.

[exitseven]

He was mean. Calling you names is counter productive.

[Berethor]

What expect him to tell you, that it okay to wear heels while being a huge girl already?

[AmazonChick171]

What is wrong with you men?’ 😳😳😳😡😡
So huge tall girls can’t wear heels but short women can?
What if it was a 5’8 woman wore four inch heels? Would you bitch at her too?
You wouldn’t bitch at a 5’1” woman wearing heels would you?

[Berethor]

I am 5’11 so for me 5’8 is too much too, yea if 5’1” wear heel is okay, she looks feminine.

[AmazonChick171]

So tall women aren’t FEMININE and short women are?” How dare you? No wonder tall women are single! So NO tall woman can wear heels at ALL?

[AmazonChick171]

5’8 is not that much for your she’s still shorter than you! You men have problems with tall women.

[Berethor]

I mean with 4 inches heels she too much for me, but even without them I am not sure, men are on average 5 inches taller than women, so I see it as the normal height-gap, and that a man should be that much taller at least. Yea tall women are masculine and you know it, and you calling yourself amazon so you know it, yea no tall woman should wear heels at all, unless she find super tall man maybe, but in your case it hightly unlikely, wearing heels is unhealthy anyway, so I don't see why you want to wear them so much.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[robocop666]

some guys like that 6"4 in heels

[laly520]

how rude