Dating advice: here's why men are failing at dating. Are you shocked?

[DreamLife7]

Here is why you're failing at dating. I'll get to the ladies later.

1. Men contradict themselves way too much.

Example: I want a wife not a hoe yet you demonstrate frustration when a woman doesn't kiss or have sex with you on the 3rd date. Get real

2. You don't make enough money yet you want a woman who looks like a Victoria's secrets model. Not happening, if you want a woman like that you need the funds to support her lifestyle and maintenance.

3. Going Dutch and expecting a woman to go 50/50 yet you want to be looked at as the man of the house. A high value woman ( mentally, emotionally, physically, financially stable) does not want a man like this and will not settle for this mediocre bs. So just stick to the insecure chicks that cry on gag begging men to call them, asking if he likes me, unattractive type chicks because that's all you'll get with this mindset.

Men be realistic like come on now.

[JacobJordan]

None of these are men's things though. Women keep saying they are strong and independent we wouldn't want to impose on her strength and independence by thinking she needs help paying for her food.

Guys who are getting upset at women for no sex by date 3 aren't looking to marry so that point is invalid. Marriage guys marry early and typically will wait which is of course why they are married.

Having a woman that looks good is not a matter of finances it is a matter of preference. A stretch for most guys true though not really a finance issue. I would say one does partially apply. It is a bit unrealistic to ask for that.

That being said my wife is very attractive and could have modeled. The lingerie I get my wife generally comes with anywhere from a $400 to $1,200 price tag. That is besides the point though.

[DreamLife7]

Great points

[DrPepper12]

Well said! Agree with every word from what I've observed!

[RespectfulGuy]

3 bullets that gun down half the earth's population.

Of course there are guys who manifest all three points written. These indeed give the name of Man a bad name.

But please be fair. Some men are great lovers and husbands who provide for their wife and children. And it is through these great people that we are alive today.

Yes, all men begin as boys. Please give them a chance to grow. If given the opportunity, many will become good husbands and fathers.

Like business or stock trading, the "first success" may mean riches or poverty. Do help our young boys become successful in life. And I think many great women out there did so and hence become someone's wife and mother.

PS: it doesn't mean relationships are always rosy. No. It takes 2 to clap, hence both genders must put in efforts to start and maintain the flame of love.

[DextroShade]

You are way off, so let me help you pull your head out of your ass:

1. If by the third date there's not even a kiss it's obvious the bitch is just using a man for free food.

2. Men aren't demanding supermodels, but there are countless examples of women who are fat, ugly, old, or baby mommas demanding men who are six feet tall making six figures. There is even a subreddit/website called whereareallthegoodmen dedicated to mocking these women.

3. Dudes offer to split the check because they know you aren't worth paying for because they either suspect you of using them for free food or they just found you so annoying that they didn't care to see you again.

[DreamLife7]

Sir, you're single bye lol 🤣

[DextroShade]

Wrong. I am married which is something you will never be.

[DreamLife7]

@DextroShade you're single bro. No one wants you it's okay😂😆🤣

[DextroShade]

Believe whatever you want, you are utterly worthless and no one will care when you die until you start to smell. 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[DreamLife7]

@DextroShade yes women see you as worthless that's why you're single 🤣🤣

[TommyMountainFigure]

Your question highlights the reasons why stereotypes are never realistic, or accurate for that matter

[DreamLife7]

It's a pretty accurate view of most men. If you're not one of them no need of replying to post

[TommyMountainFigure]

Even with you backtracking from IMPLYING it was all men, claiming you know about 'most' of us is still a whopper of a claim, considering there is almost 4 Billion Men in this world, . Had you have said 'some' there would have been no issue.

[msc545]

Well, at least you are honest enough to admit that it's all about money with women. I've always known that. However, you forgot to mention height and looks as being important too. Not as much as money, but still potential dealbreakers.

[DreamLife7]

Think about how much a woman puts on the line for a man. Bearing children is a lot of work, be a cook, a supportive wife, a teacher to the children, a nanny, a chef , a mom, be sexy. All men have to do is be loving and provide. That's pretty easy yet majority of you on gag complain about that. There are women who die during child birth, have miscarriages, need blood transfusions , become paralyzed. Don't be so selfish. We are giving our lives over to our husband's literally.

[DextroShade]

Most modern women are useless, they don't cook, they don't clean, they often already have some other dude's kid, and they have a bad attitude on top of all that just as you are demonstrating.

[DreamLife7]

@DextroShade you're still single bro 🤣🤣. Why u so angry?

[DextroShade]

I don't care what you believe, have fun dying alone.

[DreamLife7]

@DextroShade yes you're dying and alone 🤣🤣

[DextroShade]

Whatever shaniqua, you will be eaten by your cats while I'm playing with my grandchildren. I don't pity you becauseyou are entirely undeserving of pity or compassion, I pity your neighbors who will have to smell your rotting corpse.

[DreamLife7]

@DextroShade 🤣 aww yes shanqua and every woman in the world has rejected you. Yes I see your rage 🤣

[Zayeem]

If one can achive the 2nd point. there will be no 3rd point. by the way,, thanks for reminding me the point.(2nd point).

[Anonymous]

Not at all, I'll stay single for the rest of my life because it's easier

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

See I don't judge Already had a wife that was probably a whore

[NathanDavis]

never had an issue

[LiamJHayden]

Drizzle, Drizzle.

[Anonymous]

I don't do any of those things

[DreamLife7]

Subconsciously, men do it yet it shows on the outside. They're very shallow wishful thinkers who will bread crumb any and everyone if they could? Are they terrible for it? Not really it's human nature to want to get things with little to no effort