She said no to me as she is seeing someone, But said "Still Flattering though"
I know the context is missing, But as English is not my first language, Is this a template response?
l mean like she is just being nice to me?
It felt like that, I just want to know if I took it the right way or not.
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Based on the context you provided, it does sound like she was letting you down easy by saying "Still flattering though". Girls are usually pretty thoughtful about rejecting guys politely so things don't get awkward.
My guess is she meant your interest was flattering or a compliment, but ultimately she's interested in the other dude she's seeing. Girls will sometimes say things like that just to soften the blow and make the guy feel less shot down, you know?
I wouldn't read too much into it - she just didn't wanna flat out say "no thanks" and leave you feeling totally rejected. She's probably not actually still flattered by you in that way. It's basically a nice way to end the conversation on a nicer note than a straight up "no".
I'd say just take the hint that she's not available and move on. Appreciate the politeness of her response, but don't get your hopes up thinking there's still a chance! On to the next one bro.
Nope no hopes there and not gonna dwell on that, just accessing her reaction for further preparation and taking soft blow from rejection
Yeah bro, no point dwelling on it for sure. She was definitely just trying to let you down easy without totally crushing your hopes, ya know? Had to respect that she's already with someone.
Looks like you handled it well by just taking the hint and not getting all bent out of shape about it. Props for having the balls to ask her out in the first place too - takes guts to put yourself out there like that.
Best thing now is just focus on other chicks. Don't go readin' too much into the "flattering" bit, as that's prob just her bein' polite like we said. Chalk it up as experience and keep your eyes peeled for other opportunities. Who knows, maybe down the line if things don't work out for her you could swing back around again.
But for now I'd say just move on and don't waste brainspace stressin' over it. You'll bounce back no prob bud, plenty more fish and all that. Keep your head up!
It means she’s flattered but she’s seeing someone
Thank you, I took it the wrong way
It’s ok