Guys, if you have a crush on your friends little sister, she’s of age, and she adds you on social media, what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Ignore the request/follow

Follow her back

Talk to your friend who is her sibling about it and see what they think

[Anonymous]

Look, you have to tread carefully in these situations. To answer your question I would follow back and also talk to my friend.

It’s completely normal to catch feelings for a friends sibling. It’s just if there is a breakup filled with hostility not only can it ruin the relationship, but the friendship.

What risk you’re willing to take is a personal choice. How well do you know her? Is she someone you genuinely like and can see a future with, or are you just wanting to smash…. Major differences.

If it’s worth the risk. It’s worth the risk.

[RavVid]

I think you have to ask your friends permission if it is OK to try and get sex from his little sister. You could follow her straight back then ask his permission.

[Asker]

I have no intention of being rude or anything, I’m just generally curious:

Is that what most guys think when a girl adds them on social media? That they want to have sex with them?

[RavVid]

You are not being rude.

Unless we know them well enough to know it is most certainly not the case we'd have a moment of hope I think

[Asker]

Gotcha

[HawkPerception]

I'd tell my friend about it first and ask if it's okay if I go for her. I wouldn't want to make my friend uncomfortable and if they draw that line, I won't cross it.

[DrPepper12]

You only need to ask yourself one question. Are you okay with risking the friendship you have with her sibling?

[MicahRaine]

It depends on the situation.

Most likely I would nix the crush and follow her back

[LiamJHayden]

In high school I went on dates with three of one friend's sisters. Two of those sisters were twins. I am still friends with the family.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have a crush because I prefer older women but hypothetically I would add her I have plenty of platonic females on my social media list already

[Wise4myage]

Id consider following her back, but Id also mention it to her brother.

[RedInnocent69]

Follow back, but don’t over-engage. It’s still your friend’s sister, not your girlfriend.

[jahaims]

Friends sisters are off limits

[Asker]

So then “ignore the request/follow” would be your answer right?

[normalice]

Obviously if I had a crush on her I'd follow back.

[jjj101010]

Follow her back, seems polite

[jjj101010]

Has this happened to u? If so r u the little sister or r u the older sister who’s little sister was followed?

[Asker]

Sort of. I thought one of my brothers friends liked me so I added him on social media and I’m not entirely sure if he saw it or not but it says he’s been active since then and hasn’t added me back.

[jjj101010]

I have liked one of my sisters friends if that helps. Happy to chat

[Asker]

I’m just not sure if he likes me is all because he acted kinda like he did a few days ago but then I followed him and waited for a few hours (like within the span of a day but not just like 3-4 hours) and he never responded so I unfollowed him.

[jjj101010]

Ah fair enough. Do u not talk to him?

[Asker]

I’ve met him like twice. He kept approaching me at my brothers engagement party and I don’t know if that was a friendly gesture or not but at the beginning he offered to split a mango with me and tried to cut it without looking while staring at me. He also asked for a picture with me, but that could’ve been because I was behind the camera the whole time and he wanted to make sure I was in at least some photos. But then, once the party started going past midnight and I had long set down my camera for the night, I went and changed into some PJ’s and put my hair up. I sat with him and my dad for bit before telling them I was going inside to watch tv and when he came in a few minutes later, I mentioned I was watching my favorite tv show and he joined me on the couch to watch.

[jjj101010]

Ah ok, my sister told her friend which was embarrassing

[Asker]

Oof yeah that’s rough.

[Asker]

I don't know about the guy I mentioned though. My friend thinks he might like me but the whole social media thing has me thinking maybe not?

[jjj101010]

Hey, yeah it’s not easy to work it out, drop me a message or follow, happy to chat it through

[OddBeMe]

If you care for the friend you’d ask them first.