I have no boobs, no butt, a wide waist, no hips, and board shoulders can I ever compete with a curvy woman, will I be desirable to any man?

[Anonymous]

I have a very good face but an absolutely awful body. I’m not overweight I'm about average to slightly underweight (although it doesn't show I look about decently weight proportioned) I have no figure to me at all no waistline, broad wide shoulders, no boobs, no ass, no hips. I'm so jealous of well built women because I all of its unfixable its my bone structure. For that reason I don't workout because none of its fixible I can't widen my bones and spot fat removal or weight gain doesn't exist. In theory I could get slightly bigger butt with a a year of effort but a year of heavy weight lifting for such a minimal change.

How can I even compete with any femininely shaped woman or any women with any femeine attribute because somehow I got cursed with any bad phsycial gene but face and weight. Would you ever date a woman with a completely unfeminine bad body but a pretty face?

[DishLady]

So you're just a robotic face? Guys dig computers...

(JK, but you basically said you have no body parts...)

I get it... no curves. Just focus on building muscle and wear clothes that flatter your slimmer build, ok? You'll be fine. Yeah, some guys like that "boy short"/"boy cut" girl.

[Berethor]

Hard to tell without a picture, but a face tend to matter more than body, not sure about the rest but slim women tend to have no boobs and no ass, no hips could mean that childbearing would be harder for you, but I think that you would be able to manage that, what is your height? if you are a short woman then your body does have a feminine trait.

[Asker]

I’m not short I’m 5’10”

[Berethor]

You almost as tall as me, okay then you right, you do have a masculine body.

[Staximus]

All you can do is some leg, butt, and core workouts to make your legs and butt bigger and define your waist. Your body is probably not even bad. Things could be worse, at least you don't have a face like a bulldog

[luvstoned4him]

and thats your problem. DONT TRY TO COMPETE with another woman or body type
Always try to improve yourself and love yourself

if you dont love yourself and you see something that can be changed or improved then by all means do it... but dont do it for society or to fit in or to compete, do it because its what YOU want for yourself.

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker also I've seen women who aren't curvy but are sexy because of their confidence.

[Jane1964]

Oh hun. Of course you will be desirable. There absolutely is someone for everyone. Just need to find them. Shallow people will focus on just looks. And looks are fleeting anyway. Not everyone only wants Victoria Secret style models, of which i most certainly am not, but many really real people will desire you for being what you are which is you 💕

[FunkyMonkee]

You sound a lot like me!
Well, tits can be grown. I'm hearing ass can, too.

[Asker]

Not sure where you’ve ever heard breast can grow that’s purely genetic unless I got fat which still doesn’t guarantee big boobs. Ass is possible but it takes at least a weight lifting to see any minor change.

[Asker]

correction: at least a year of weight lifting

[FunkyMonkee]

No, you can take stuff and manipulate them to grow. I know of a GUY that got his up to at least H cups doing that. If HE can do it, YOU shouldn't have ANY problem with it!

[Nikki1989]

You have to work with what you got.

[DrPepper12]

There is a key for every lock!! Would you consider plastic surgery?

[Anonymous]

Look on the bright side. You'd probably be good at golf.

Confidence is key hun. If you believe in yourself a guy is more likely to believe in you.

[OddBeMe]

I’ll need photographic evidence to decide.
Also just remember: we are 10x harsher on ourselves than others are.

[RedInnocent69]

You probably can. Girls always tend to be hardest on themselves. But it’s difficult to judge without more evidence. 😉

[noohair]

Could you post a picture? I would like to see if it is as bad as you say.

[laryipels]

some of us like flat girls. i am one of then

[antonsheker]

beat them with an awesome personality!

[jjj101010]

Everyone has different preferences