Should I forgive my boyfriend for his lie?

[Anonymous]

there’s this girl at his workplace who asks him why he was not at work, as my boyfriend took a day off. So i told him to block her because it seemed suspicious. Then he said okay I will block her. He blocks her infront of me. He said she’s also married. Then fast forward, two weeks later. Yesterday I told him to show me his phone, and show me their convo. Turns out he unblocked her and then unblocked her again just before showing me the chat. And he revealed she was in fact single. He said he unblocked her because she was harassing him at work and she was talking to coworkers about him blocking her cuz of his girlfriend. He also said he knew I’d be mad so he lied about her being married and blocked her cuz I would act crazy. What do you think. Then he deleted her

[DryGermanGuy]

Stop terrorizing the guy! People talk to other people! Jeeez.

[Asker]

But isn’t it suspicious that he unblocked her or felt the need to unblock her. And he said she asked him and started talking about it to other coworkers. Doesn’t that sound a bit suspicious?

[DryGermanGuy]

You and your suspicion were the reason why he felt pressured to „block“ her in the first place. So of course she would ask him at work why he is such a pushover. Get rid of the insecurities, do yourself the favor.

[jahaims]

He is too immature for a healthy relationship. He still seeks validation outside of the relationship. You are too insecure for a healthy relationship.

[Asker]

Yes what should I do

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[Asker]

Why though

[BarryLiverstone]

Because he didn’t want you to be worried or act crazy. So he was protecting your feelings

[Asker]

But isn’t it suspicious that he would unblock her

[BarryLiverstone]

Not if he unblocked her based on her gossip at work. Like he told you didn’t he?

[Asker]

And also after blocking her the girl asked him why she was blocked and started talking to other coworkers about it

[BarryLiverstone]

Right. She did that to try and manipulate your boyfriend