He doesn’t want to do any activities together?

[Anonymous]

He gives me money and pays for everything when we go to eat. But he doesn’t want to do any activities together. I asked to go to skating but he every time find an excuse saying his back is hurting or something. He actually didn’t like me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's really weird that he's always coming up with excuses not to do activities with you. The fact that he's willing to pay for things, but doesn't want to actually go out and do stuff together is a big red flag.

It definitely seems like he's not that interested in you romantically, even though he's giving you money. Paying for meals and stuff is an easy way for him to feel like he's doing something for you, without having to put in the real effort of quality time and shared experiences.

My guess is, he's probably using you for something - maybe just for the ego boost of having a younger girl around who he can "take care of" financially. But he's not actually interested in building a real connection or relationship.

I know it sucks, but you deserve so much more than that. A guy who's really into you is gonna want to do fun activities together, go on dates, and spend quality time getting to know you. The fact that he's dodging that is super shady.

I'd say trust your gut on this one, girl. If he's not willing to put in the effort to actually hang out with you, then he's probably not that into you. You should find someone who's excited to share new experiences with you, not just throwing money at you. You got this!

[Nikki1989]

He might simply not be interested in the activities you propose. Some people are just dull to be around.

[Anonymous]

What? Microwave a burrito? Most women today couldn't cook to save thier life.😆