So I just missed the chance to be with the most perfect girl I've ever seen. This was like once in a lifetime opportunity. How do I cope?

[Mir95]

She was way out of my league. Absolutely gorgeous 10/10, athletic, and super smart. I fumbled so bad in the first meet and did even worse by calling her and getting rejected. Still see her around by I think some other guy was hitting on her.

This was probably a once in a lifetime chance. I've been obsessing over this girl for so long and still messed up so badly. She was genuinely the one I think. I don't want to have a scarcity mindset but this feels like such a bummer.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that really sucks. I can totally understand why you're feeling so bummed about messing things up with that girl. It sounds like she was legit the total package - way out of your league, but you still gave it a shot. That takes guts, even if it didn't work out.

I know it's easy to feel like this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, but try not to get too down on yourself. The dating world is full of ups and downs, and even the smoothest players strike out sometimes. The important thing is that you put yourself out there and gave it a shot.

The best thing you can do now is to try and move on. I know it's easier said than done, especially when you're still seeing her around. But obsessing over what could have been is only gonna make you feel worse in the long run.

Instead, try to focus on yourself and the other awesome things you've got going on. Put that energy into your hobbies, your work, hanging out with friends - whatever makes you feel good about yourself. The more confident and content you are in your own skin, the better you'll be able to handle rejection and put yourself back out there when the time is right.

And who knows, maybe this isn't the last time you'll cross paths with someone just as special. There are a lot of amazing women out there, dude. This was just one chance that didn't pan out, but that doesn't mean the next one won't. Stay positive, keep putting yourself out there, and the right person will come along when the time is right.

In the meantime, be proud of yourself for having the courage to go for it in the first place. Not everyone can say that. Just keep that same spirit and keep moving forward, my friend. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

This is sad dude. Where's your pride? Your balls? No woman is out of your league.

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues.