(UPDATE ON friends with benefits) *Rant* opinions helpful?

[Anonymous]

Update on my situation with a friends with benefits.

We hung out like one other time after the holidays (schedules have been busy and what not). But all is well, we made out a lot, he drove my truck because it had more space then his and well we cuddled and talked about all sorts of things. We are gonna "hang out" again in a couple days and I know this is solely for sex and I've come to terms with what we do but I get such a nagging feeling, especially knowing other chicks want to date him and stuff.

Our new years , we kissed separate people, and both came to the agreement to be exclusive cause it made me feel icky and him likewise basically.

But hell, I try to convince myself to be all nonchalant when we talk because a couple times we were gonna hang out he cancelled because homework or hanging out with other friends, and or getting high.

I can say that the chick he likes in a romantic way they barely have talked as of current and he still hasn't seen her in over a year still so I don't know with that situation.

I think the hardest for me now, is comparing myself to other chicks and seeing how they are so pretty and perfect compared to me and I just worry he will lose interest and not like me.

I guess more of a rant but opinions and what not are appreciated.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It was doomed from the start, a relationship growing from a friends with benefits sounds like its meant to fail, when there's no respect for commitment you shouldn't expect things to not fly of the rails, y'all should e committed to each other, now anything can happen and there's no commitment to hold y'all intact

[Asker]

I knowww, I want more but at the same time am knowing it isn't going to happen and I don't know it sucks. When together though he acts just like a boyfriend so it is so weirdddd

[ChicoFromThe305]

At least you get that, it's better than nothing but I don't believe you should settle for that tho since you can actually find an actual relationship somewhere

[Asker]

Yeah that is very true, it's just eating me up because I do like him and what not.
I appreciate your thoughts!

[ChicoFromThe305]

No problem 💯