I’ve dating someone for a year and a half and she still has not slept with me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating someone for a year and a half although it is not a relationship. She works full time in addition to being in grad school, so she doesn’t want to commit. I told her that I understood still, but we have not slept together.

Should I just walk away from this situation?

[DishLady]

Dating doesn't imply that you'll be having sex. She's in grad school and has her priorities straight. So what's YOUR issue with her choice to have a social and personal life while finishing grad school? You'd rather she accidentally get knocked up while she's going through her studies... be unable to meet her goals just because you wanted to have sex? It's every serious girl's nightmare...

[Anonymous]

She's getting what she wants out of it man.

Generally speaking most women sleep with you within a month. So I always say, "if she hasn't slept with you in a month, congratulations"! "She's sleeping with someone, it's just not you".

Assuming she's the rare woman that DOESN'T do this. Then you need to tell her what your needs are. Because as I said, hers ARE being met. You're either OK with that or you're not. And it doesn't sound like you are.

[Stevepro68]

Dude unless she was up front with you from the start about a personal or religious prohibition against pre marital sex. Get out! normal healthy humans in a romantic relationship share sexual attraction. If they don't it's not a romantic relationship. Given your age this is not a teenage situation or it shouldn't be. Either you are delusional about the nature of your relationship or she is using you. It cannot be anything else.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It sounds to me like this situation isn't gonna change until she finishes what she's doing and it might not lead to anything even then.

You can continue waiting if you want with no promise it will lead to anything, but my recommendation is to move on and start dating someone who actually wants a relationship.

[Anonymous]

because you're not in a relationship. so, she obviously doesn't want to have sex with someone she's not in a relationship with. but honestly, both of you are wasting time... why date for a year AND A HALF and not be in a relationship? it's weird. this is a her problem. tons of people are in grad school and are in committed relationships. weird excuse on her part.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Well you're not official so it makes sense that there hasn't been sex. If you want sex that badly you can go find someone who wants to commit. You already know her plans, can't expect it to magically change now.

[HungTexan]

Have you tried to have sex? Or are you waiting on her to suggest it? Seems very strange to me if there’s mutual attraction.

[Asker]

Yeah, she said that she didn’t feel comfortable having sex outside of a relationship.

[HungTexan]

Then have a relationship if you want to have sex with her. What’s the deal with you?

[Asker]

She doesn’t want to be in a relationship because she’s busy with work, grad school, and her mom died two years ago.

[HungTexan]

No relationship. No sex. No time for you. Why not move on?

[Asker]

I guess I really liked her and was hoping she’d eventually come around.

[Anonymous]

Definitely walk away because there’s nothing for you to gain from that situation anymore. Don’t be a jerk and gripe about the sex, you can get that from another woman if it’s so important to you.

[Agape93]

You're not entitled to her body. She's working her ass off. Leave her be

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol this will most likely be me in a relationship…. It’s up to you but don’t cheat

[Asker]

Why, though?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Why what

[JamesRandiDebates]

Walk away. You should have done that after the second date when she didn't give up the pussy.

[Ariesman81]

If she's not a virgin get out

[StevenMcGarrett]

She is just leading you on.