What does it mean if you're attracted to your female freind?

[drdrey]

My emotions and everything depends on her moves. We both are pure friends and have spent 8 months in college together full day with each other

[DishLady]

Sometimes just bc you're spending so much time together you feel super attracted to one another but can't define whether this is a camaraderie or a possible romantic connection. You're body is telling you "i like this one" and you want to stay close, but you're not sure how far to take things.

Best thing to do is take some time apart -- perhaps the summer break -- and come back together in September to see if you still feel the same way.

[Rosexøxø]

100% this

[Genie23]

It means you started liking her. You seem to be emotionally attached to her because you both spend so much time together and that's why you started finding yourself attracted to her.

[bddddd]

Just date her. It has worked for about 6000 years at this point.

[Geo1970]

Then quite possibly, if you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, then it’s Time for you to make some very valid decisions on what you need to do in the foreseeable future regarding your present partner.


The last thing that you should really do is string along your present partner, That is a very unjustifiable thing to do to them!

[Finchie40]

It means you like her more than just a friend now that you really got to know her and feel happy around her , so now you want more than just a friendship with her , so you are best to express your feelings to her and see what happens

[Purpleronnie]

There are all kinds of attraction , I’d say yours to her is likely because your spending so much time with her


Being honest , I think you need to create a little space / room for objectivity developing feelings for a girl you spend that much time with is not just normal it’s likely !!

[exitseven]

This is pretty normal. It is not unusual to fall in love with somebody that you have been friends with, You can either tell her and hope that she feels the same way or else you keep it to yourself and you always have this question in your head.

[YourFutureEx]

No, you are not pure friends. Stop lying to yourself. You like her. More than just friends. And I'm not saying that you have a malicious intent. It's in our nature to grow attachments with the people who make us feel safe, secure and fulfilled and with whom we spend so much time with talking and sharing.

[Zack-Bann]

It means you should saddle up and make a move before you have to standby and watch her dating someone else because you spent too much time figuring out your feelings


Trust me I speak from experience

[236color]

It means you are going to spend time hoping for something that will NEVER happen. Move on.

[Kaneki05]

Congrats your normal. It would be very strange if you didn't find her attractive unless of course you aren't into girls.

[Phoenix98]

It means your attracted to your female friend.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats the only effective way to find and keep a wife. You gotta be best friends first.

[Massageman]

You are going to have to decide - is she a friend or a lover.

[dragoblack]

That you are attracted to your friend. Sometimes people get more attachment from getting to know someone, rather than just getting to know them after.

[cheating-test_com]

Then she’s not really your friend anymore — only she thinks you’re friends. You’re just afraid to tell her because she’ll disappear if she’s not attracted to you and likely - she is not.

[AndrésC64]

What do you mean what does it mean? It means you're attracted to her. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[In_Trance]

You definitely not pure friends if all you can do is think about railing her.
That's not what a friendship is

[Anonymous]

Been there, considering I was friend-zoned so many times.

[Anonymous]

Either you have to make a move or swallow your feelings from what I understand

[beenherebefore]

Means you like her. You're into her.

[WhitneySnow]

Means you’re in love with her

[RingOfFire]

Means you're not gay? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Rosexøxø]

Dude how do you know how to use that keyboard face 😂 I didn’t know older generations could do it. Thats totally cool.

[RingOfFire]

Hey! I may be old, but I'm not dumb! 🤣

[new-person]

You're straight, your not gay.

[Anonymous]

It means you care about her. End of story.