Would You Ever Sleep With Your Closest Friend Because You Guys Are Single, Bored And Trust Each Other?

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FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

No. Because it will very likely destroy the friendship

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I basically agree with you on this one

Genie23 · Answer

No, never. They are like brothers to me even if I didn't think of them as my brothers... I still wouldn't sleep with them as I don't like the concept of casual sex and friends with benefits and I also wouldn't want to anything that friendship at risk or would complicate our friendship

DishLady · Answer

I'd never do that, but I've been asked to do that several times. I just give the guy a look that says, "Look buddy, we're friends. You want to change that then the exit is over there." I've never had to put that into words. The guy gets it immediately and apologizes for offending me.

ohsheeT · Answer

No I have had many opportunities to this and when this happen there's always goingbto be one of you that has deeper feeling towards the other then that turned in to all kinda of things. And that's when the friendship ends. So for me I have to weigh it out. Have sex end relationship. Or no sex and stay friends

NathanDavis · Answer

my longest close friend... I know her since we were age 12, and no, we have never even thought of having sex

"let's have sex because we're bored" is just silly to me, so that's discarded right away, lol

we trust each other completely and entirely yes, but that's just natural with any good friendship, so that's not a factor either... as for being single, the time frame in which we were both single at the same time at any point of our lives was minimum... but even then, we didn't really consider it because we were just friends and we just have it too good as friends, just great

Zack-Bann · Answer

Every single guy who acts like your best friend is going to bed dreaming about that day

I personally don’t think it’s a healthy way to do life.

That being said I have absolutely no issues with the idea in theory
If it does happen naturally I would do it.
I’d like to think that she wouldn’t find it weird (whoever she’d be because I don’t have a woman bff)

But it’s not something I spend time thinking about because it detracts from actual finding a partner for an adult relationship

RavVid · Answer

Hmmh. At the basic level an erection is essential for sex to happen. Now I ain't say my female friends are fugley (thanks for the line Linda Ronstadt) and I ain't saying that I couldn't get hard over them.

Possibly all they have to do is say "Would you like to get your dick wet in me".

But there is a sister aspect to female friends and the aspect that I have never felt their breasts before.

In short I have no idea which way it would go. They might have really firm breasts in which case it is hell yeah.

MrChinaski · Answer

Maybe. I would certainly consider it. I know this works for some people. But humans are built to develop romantic attraction for someone they have intimate relations with. I always have. If one of you does and the other does not then it could tear your friendship apart, or at least require a hiatus. If you both do then you have become a couple. It's a challenge to keep romance out that is manageable for some and not for others.

Anyway, my closest friend is a guy and I don't play that sport.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

A few years back while driving a text comes in from my closest gal pal (I found the text to share in her words) which I hear through my AirPods while driving the following is read to me,

“If you're still single when shit falls apart for me again I'm forcing you to marry me and that's that, you can keep me friend zoned but at least I can do the things for you friend or not lol”

That message arrive completely out of the blue. We hadn’t spoke in a few weeks nor had this ever been a conversation subject. Yes I friend zoned her … long ago. Yes she is attractive. Very attractive most would say. Me being me zoned her because I found her to be flaky.

Would I sleep with her? It isn’t high on my list but add alcohol and who knows.

RHK36 · Answer

I would but with the understanding that it's just sex. We would have to be completely on the same page. Opportunity doesn't really happen often as there's usually one person that definitely gets attached so it's usually not even on the table to mention it. More often that not it can ruin a friendship without that trust and communication of what it is.

SueShe · Answer

Of course not. I am no hoe or prostitute and I have dignity and self-esteem.

I don't have the urge to fornicate. This is simply a kind of sporting activity or occupation that interests me.

There are more important activities in life that don't jeopardize my health. Furthermore, why would I lose my self-esteem for a few pathetic spasms and muscular contractions?

MemeSupreme · Answer

i would never sleep with someone i'm not seriously dating bc i need that connection

BUT if its just like sharing the same bed bc there's only one, then maybe. it REALLY depends on how comfortable i am with them and just who they are

4ngelic · Answer

if i had a super close guy friend and we were both single and found each other attractive, why not i guess

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course. I'm not a prude. Plus she's pretty great, it would be hard to find someone near her level.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I wish I could but I had morals amd she had borderline personality disorder. The love of my life stuck in the friend zone never bothered me but she left me after 23 years because i wouldn't stick my dick in her. Thats what 20plus years means to a woman. Thats why men pick dogs.

Subtle_Luminescence · Answer

They need to be attractive. If other conditions are met too, then why not?

Ask_Kenny · Answer

I already did many times. There's nothing wrong in that and after all, we trust eachother so it's safe.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Probably that we trust each other so, there wouldn't be any sex.

bowenw · Answer

Probably if it was a female friend that was agreeable.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No! Just because of this! And i'm sure it goes Both ways... https//m. youtube. com/watch? v=b5Q4KG1ZtVg&pp=0gcJCfwAo7VqN5tD

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I'm not so lonely that I would need to sleep with friends.. I only do that with people I really like.

Cormac995 · Answer

I don't have friends and when I did they were all guys so no

Bad2daBone22 · Answer

I’ve kinda done it but they were coworkers lol

shortster · Answer

Probably, if I had a female friend.

ariadneR · Answer

Ha I don't have friends. So it's not applicable

altaboy · Answer

I did that with a friend years ago.

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

I would I suppose. If the stars aligned lol

EmmaMary · Answer

@anon1903  No, absolutely not.

Jeff51 · Answer

Never has happened to me.

jazzy34 · Answer

No. That's called using someone.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Pfft no.

notCryHONEY · Answer

friendships are not for me : /

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes I would, that is what friends are for….. ;)

bananathunder · Answer

yes was not an option in you poll

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Not in the biblical sense.

MasterKS · Answer

There is no option, i would say YES!

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Yes, i have done it couple of times

rebelkid · Answer

Nope. NEVER

jahaims · Answer

Nope

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