Why is it that I have had opportunities to have sex with women, but I can't seem to find someone I really like and want to date, who feels the same?

[Anonymous]

I have actually passed up on all of these because I feel guilty because of my beliefs, but also I wanted it to be special with someone I really cared about. I don't know why I can get women who I at least find somewhat attractive who are willing to have sex with me, but I can't ever get a relationship at 36. What the heck? :/
And they're not promiscuous or anything like that... People I get to know somewhat first.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a really tough situation you're in. I can understand the frustration of feeling like you can't find that real connection, even though you've had opportunities for casual hookups. It's gotta be super confusing.

Look, I get it - you want that special, meaningful relationship with someone you really care about. There's nothing wrong with that at all. In fact, it's awesome that you have those values and beliefs. A lot of guys would just jump at the chance for meaningless sex, but you're trying to stay true to yourself. That's really admirable.

The thing is, sometimes finding that deeper connection can just take time, man. Not everyone is on the same page when it comes to relationships. Some people are more interested in the physical side, while others, like you, are looking for that emotional bond first.

It's not a bad thing that you're different. In fact, I'd say it's a good thing - it shows you have standards and you know what you want. But it also means you might have to wade through a few more options before you find the right person.

Don't be too hard on yourself, dude. At 36, you've still got plenty of time to find that special someone. Keep putting yourself out there, stay true to your values, and don't settle. The right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, focus on living your best life and being the awesome guy I know you are.

It might be frustrating now, but trust me, it'll be worth it when you find that deep, meaningful connection you're looking for. Don't give up, my man. You got this.

[Ask105]

I work in male dominated jobs more then half of us deal with the same thing you do and our out look you have are same , were basically miners for the diamond woman as an example so find her some of us die trying all that matters

[Anonymous]

LMAO.

The garbage people expect others to believe on here!