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I went out with a guy 4 times. It seemed we really hit it off, and last week he started calling me a lot more and talking about bringing me to future events. But then I didn’t see him over the weekend, and now he’s talking a lot less. There are a couple other guys I was holding off seeing because I like him a lot, but I don’t want to pass on them if things are clearly going nowhere with him.
I would like to ask him tomorrow about seeing him this weekend so that I know whether to make plans with someone else. I’d like to convey that i really like him and would love to see where things can go, but If I don’t see him I’m going to assume things are over. This weekend will be two weeks, so that is a make or break time in my opinion (we can’t see each other during the week). How can I say this without sounding needy or like I’m playing games?
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there's no right out wrong time i mean by that some girls after 3 or 4 dates will be like hell no and if you wanted 3 month they would have said yes in my opinion there's no way to tell when to ask a girl out I’ve done the 3 or 4 dates and had one said i want to get to no you more but she was highly interested in me i just said screw you guys im going home ! like South Park cartman I literally was like maybe we’re better off friends because i have no idea when to ask you
Just ask him. It sounds like the make it or break it time. Dont be afraid of feeling needy.
Why can’t you see him during the week?
Our work schedules don’t align, unfortunately
Ultimately if you become exclusive that’s going to be a big challenge. Don’t delay meeting other guys because of him on the weekend being able to meet. Live your life and set up other dates
It’s not very likely one of you will change work schedules in the near term and meeting during the week will become important in a serious relationship
I get home from work at 3 and him around 8 PM. If we were in a relationship I could just spend the night and see him a few hours on weeknights.
Just spending the night with him isn’t much like going on dates. But you know your needs
Very true. But what do I say To him about this weekend then? Should I just say I’d like to see him, or is it better to say I’m trying to make plans and would like to prioritize him if he’s available? And if he says he’s busy or won’t commit, do I ask if he would just like to move on?
Like I said, live your life and make plans with others if they are available. See if he’s also wanting to get together. But if you lock in a date with another guy and this guy wants to see you, just let him know you are busy when you are.
He’s less likely to ask you to be his girlfriend if he knows you are waiting every weekend Just to see him.
You have been on 4 dates. I would have thought by now that one of you would have already planned date 5.
Well I tried Last weekend. He had prior commitments on Friday and Saturday, which I understood. But when I asked To do something Sunday, he was busy and then texted me late to see how my day was. I think he was probably with another girl.
There you go. He’s living his life. So you do the same