Am I an a-hole for thinking of this while having a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a temporary job until my career gets back to me. And there’s a woman who reminds me so much of my girlfriend. That I even feel like telling her that, but it would be creepy. Like same face and hair. I feel so guilty staring because she’s a brunette thinner version of my girlfriend (my girlfriend is thicker and blonde). And today a really attractive girl flirted with me today. But I don’t think I should tell my girlfriend. It just had me thinking that I could’ve been with someone like that if I didn’t find my girlfriend. But I love my girlfriend than any woman on earth. Still I feel guilty.

[Genie23]

Are you not happy with her? I mean, you say you love her more than anyone but then why do you still had thoughts like the one you mentioned in your question description. You didn't make a move. So, you didn't do anything bad. The fact that you feel guilty about those thoughts tells that you're not a bad person but comparing her with other women in your mind and think "I could have been with someone like that" it kinda makes me think you're not completely happy with her.

[exitseven]

What you are experiencing in completely normal and you did the right thing.

[Anonymous]

It's not fair to your girlfriend, but if you're not happy with her, you should be honest, and break up the relationship.