If your boyfriend came in late last night, did you ask him where he was and what he was doing?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

That would be the wise thing to say especially if he has never did that before , you have every right to know where he has been especially if he wants a healthy relationship with you. If my partner did that to me , she better be prepared to answer some questions. And be honest about it , because if she isn’t honest , the truth will eventually shine and I will kick her ass to the curb where she belongs. Why communication is very important in relationships, if you don’t have great communication with your partner , you should really reconsider that relationship period. It isn’t hard to call or text your partner , if it becomes an issue , then your relationship is the issue , because they aren’t being honest with you. If a partner pulled that shit on me they better be prepared to answer my questions , if they ignore my questions or get frustrated over my questions , then I will gladly help them pack their shit and kick them out of the house , they can go sleep on the grass for all I care. I have ended some relationships because of shit like this happening. It’s not insecurities , it’s called Respect , if you can’t respect your partner, don’t expect them to respect you period. Partners that do shit like this are disrespectful , selfish people that only care about themselves and that only like the convenience of you , there is no love whatsoever, you are just being used. Kick them to the curb if they can not be honest and prove they are being honest. Never let someone write Sucker on your head period. If someone can’t treat you the same way you treat them , they are trash , kick them to the curb where they belong

[Asker]

@finchie40
It’s mostly men who stay out late, I know because I work in a nightclub and I see married men come in and stay late 💃

[Finchie40]

You are best to stay away from them then and not fall for any of their shit period

[Asker]

@finchie40
If I know someone is married I stay away

[Finchie40]

Unfortunately not everyone tells the truth , I had my fair share of married women that said they were single

[Asker]

@finchie40
True

[MasterKS]

she must tell him, jack off and cum right now so i can see are you empty or not? LOL!

[Asker]

@masterks
True

[MasterKS]

@jennz6 Thank you for MHO!

[Asker]

@masterks
You’re welcome honey 💕

[katiesmuff]

When mine came home I didn't have to ask him as the three boys told me of all the fun the four of them had for the day all of which badly needed showers!

[Asker]

@katiesmuff
What was he doing

[katiesmuff]

They had been to a large farm where a corn maze, carnival rides, games and such were going on.

[Brandi555]

I would ask him. But out of curiosity, not because I don’t trust him.

[Asker]

@brandi555
What?

[Zack-Bann]

She can ask, yes.
But she cannot “accuse” me of anything


That’s because accusations have a way of building resentment.


If she spends enough time thinking I might have cheated she will eventually treat me as though I did


So I make it clear from the start:
Trust but verify.


And it goes both ways

[Asker]

@zack-bann
Of course

[FreyaRed]

He has to kneel in front of me while I hold a sharp sword blade over his neck and he has to tell me everything while begging for mercy,

[Natasha1995]

Holding a knife near his dick will get you quicker results. He'll spill everything :)

[Asker]

@Natasha1995
Same here

[FreyaRed]

@Natasha1995 I tend to be the warrior type. Dicks are just tools.

[Kelly6]

@freyared wow 😳 how can you still have a husband? 🤣

[dougeats]

@Natasha1995 Yikes

[sage2021]

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https://youtu. be/VWYqW7FHRuU? si=sgU-CP21drF98-Vw


Usually you have to try both of them and one of them should work.

It's the song "Let Me Smell Your Dick."
And a video that plays it out when he comes home the next morning.

[Med_guy1978]

A relationship should be based on love and trust, I don't like all this espionage and paranoia. If your partner is going elsewhere for business, there is something clearly wrong with your relationship. If you or they have tried to fix or address the problem but no signs of a mutual agreement or compromise, then the shit will hit the fan.

[AvaRay]

I believe if he wants me to know, he’ll tell me. If he hides, the truth will always find its way out.. 😊

[Communicationisking]

So true. You are very down to earth and have your head screwed on right. I find I ask questions sometimes but my gut feeling and the answers don't align but as you said the truth comes out eventually and verifies my gut feelings

[AvaRay]

Exactly… 😊

Our intuition rarely lies actually..

Sometimes patience is all it takes for the truth to reveal itself..

Trusting that gut feeling saves us from a lot of disappointment.. 😌

[Communicationisking]

Agreed... It can be hard when you don't want to believe your gut though or when your in a bad headspace and you doubt your gut because you think it may be because of the headspace your in but from the way you talk tho I'd say you are pretty well connected to your body and possibly the universe too so maybe don't ever feel like that but also understand what I'm saying.

[AvaRay]

I understand what you mean sir.. 😊

Sometimes, it's true it’s tricky to tell if it’s gut instinct or just the mood we’re in..

I’ve doubted mine too at times, but I try to trust that my gut is somehow my inner compass, it may wobble, but it usually points me in the right direction..

and thank you, that’s kind of you to say. I really do believe the universe has its way of guiding us, even when our headspace feels cloudy.. 🙏🏻

[Communicationisking]

Yeah I thought you were on the same page as me (universe wise) but wasn't sure 100%... my gut was right tho haha.

The universe gives us what we need not what we want ie. everything happens for a reason.

Our paths crossing is one of them and it is good to see there are others out there sharing true honest opinions/information.

[Asker]

@avaray
Women’s intuition 💯

[AvaRay]

Haha seems like your gut didn’t fail you this time sir.. 😄

I agree, the universe always has its own timing, even if we don’t get what we want, we usually end up with what we actually need, correct? 🙂‍↕️

And yeah, I’m glad too… it’s rare to find people who value honesty and real connection.

Crossing paths feels meant for a reason ✨😊🙏🏻

[AvaRay]

@Jennz6 Women’s intuition 💯 … yeay 👊🏻👊🏻

it’s like our built in superpower 😉✨ not always logical, but almost always spot on.. 😌

[Communicationisking]

@avaray and @jennz6
I think a lot more women are just more able to connect with the universe than most men because they are less likely to be egotistical and push it aside/ignore it but I also think this is being lost by women (young women) these days and it is sad to see.
Both my kids are super spiritual and connected to the universe as I think most kids are but I see them get caught up a little in the BS that surrounds them I hope they see past it and follow their gut before it is too late.
I don't try change them at all but I do give them some words of wisdom and crystals and stuff that will hopefully help them be less influenced by the BS that surrounds them.

[Asker]

@Communicationisking pray

[primebreadenjoyer]

I've never encountered this issue, usually my boyfriend tells me if he has plans before he goes out. If he's running late or going to return late, he lets me know.

If this happened to me, however, I think I would wait until the morning and sit down with him, ask him about it.

[dougeats]

never ask her but I also never have been asked. I just say I'm going to play pool or whatever and thats it

[Asker]

@dougeats
I’ll have to remember that “GONNA PLAY POOL”

[Asker]

@dougeats
Doug 💦💧

[dougeats]

Thats what it usually is! LOL. Two ball side pocket... always call the shots right? lol

[dougeats]

whoa! yes my stunning friend Jenn? 😍

[Wiredone]

My wife never did that to me. She knows beforehand what I did and who I was with

[Asker]

@wiredone
Do you ask for her permission?

[Wiredone]

No. I tell her that im going out

[Asker]

@wiredone
Yes, you’re the man

[Nikki1989]

Unlikely. Just because we are married doesn't mean we can't have a private life.

[Communicationisking]

He should just tell you... preferably prior to coming home late

[Surely]

Don’t you feel somewhat responsible for those guys who stay out past their curfew? Especially if they are out with unattached friends or bachelor parties.

[Alex-Snow]

I think you have the right to ask hi that especially if you live together. What do you suspect something is going on?

[Guido]

There is no need for her to question anything. Total trust both ways and I always tell her where I am.

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[Jay-_-]

I would ask my girlfriend that if she comes late without any message, note or warning.

[Likes2drive]

if you have to ask, you may not like the answer and he probably will just lie anyway

[Celticwolf78]

What's the point in not saying anything unless we already talked and she would have already known

[itsannalee]

Mostly he told me before I asked him.

[StephanieChick111]

No, he will tell me.

[XXblack88]

I would out of curiosity

[RedInnocent69]

Came in where, last night?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Haven't had a boyfriend in AGES !!!

[red_knight]

Controlling

[Asker]

@red_knight
No it’s not, he asks me if I’m out late

[Laura131]

Don't have one ✌🏻

[FenixG45]

LOL! I DON'T have a boyfriend!

[SSikk]

I hate this question TBH 😁

[sportsmike]

No ,, not my business