Why am I suddenly attracted to white boys only?

[Anonymous]

When I was in middle school, I realized I only ever had crushes on white boys. I wasn’t conscious of it at the time—it just happened. In high school and college, I became more open to liking people of all races, and I’ve dated or had talking stages with folks of different backgrounds. But now, when it comes to actual crushes lately, it seems like I mostly develop them for white guys. I’ve had multiple back-to-back crushes, and it’s making me wonder if there’s something “off” about me. I’m a Black woman, and I know that in our community (and beyond), going for white guys can sometimes come with labels like “white boy lover,” often not in a positive way. Which makes me not want to act on it, also most white guys only date within their race, and if they don’t; they say really insensitive or weird things comparing us to chocolate

[ohsheeT]

Well i don't even know where to begin

Or maybe I do.
When I believe in something as powerful as my happiness.

There is no word or words in the dictionary.
Or that would come out of somebody's mouth

That would stop me from doing what I wanted to do

Those people that would say whatever they would say.
They only get one chance to say it and then you had probably never seen them again. Anyway

And me knowing what I do is no one's business but mine

I would have to be a smart as just to show them words don't hurt me. a d I would say something like. But I'm really confused. Just because I said I like white boys.

Did you know there is over 300 different shades of what. Out of the 300 what shade of white do you think I should pick
.

Then I would say so I take it you only date black boys. Did you know there is over 170 something shades of black what shade do you like best.

Well anyway. No matter what shade and one is. I fall in love with the person on the inside. You like there heart and how good of a person. There.

We are all made from spiritual energy. What shade of energy do you like

And depending on the look on there face I might say wait a minute. Is this any of your business..

Or I might say well I need to go.
And thank you for your input

But I'm thinking ho fuck yourself lol

Remember this if we fall down the lesson is how we get right back up

So don't stop doing what you want to do because someone might say something to you.

Because know has said anything yet and you sat down get your happy ass back up and take it on when it might happen. Do sit down before you even start. Because of someone's words

[Finchie40]

You like what you like , that’s all that matters , no one can decide that for you , so don’t stop yourself from liking white guys’ there are plenty of white guys’ that like black girls’

[Apulu_backagain]

It's better to get into a relationship with someone you genuinely like instead of someone you pretend to like because 'thats the right thing'. If you go with the second situation, you'll just end up being disappointed and disappointing your partner and it'll be a waste of your time and his.

If you like white guys, there's no problem with that. You go date whoever you want to. In the end, as long as you're not being rude to others for them not being like your preference, your choice is no one's business.

Obviously the gossip aunties will always have something to snitch about lol. Ignore them.

[Summeroflove]

Nothings wrong with you. It’s a preference and honestly a lot of people are attracted to people who don’t look like themselves….

[Zack-Bann]

Maybe you have an upset stomach and subconsciously wanna lay off the spice for a while


Who knows

[glennos89]

I wish I could should you hoe good white men can be for you... but Im too old

[Anonymous]

You like what you like.

[Anonymous]

You tell us