



First of all... you've already posted this.
Next, you've generated some extra text, so now it's unclear whether this is an actual problem for you or you're just a drama queen desperate for all of us to rally and say "poor baby"...
Lastly, telling a guy your cycle is completely unnecessary. *I* barely want to know about my own cycle, let alone go whining to some guy for sympathy about a cycle of misery he can never understand.
AS I MENTIONED in your original post, a guy wants to maintain a lovely, sexy visual of his girl... He's not looking to be hangign out with his friends or family and suddenly get a play-by-play account of how you're bleeding like a morgue-bound character in a bad motel murder scene... or to hear that you're hangry with migraines and cranky af.
Wait, let's test out the theory...
Hey, @spartan55 ... I have my period... Wanna drop everything you're doing, reach through the phone screen and hold my hand for a week?
That’s what my hubby does for me. Caring and attentive.
As well as other men who care for their woman
Boys? That’s what we are raising in the US.
Sad.
Yeah I meant to say this is a troll.
However… I do let my hubby now then boyfriend now about my health, finance, values beliefs are, during the time of courtship… we were able to square away the differences and now in a great place.
Health especially that we are on the same page. When I first met him he was not comfortable talking about certain subjects…
Boys will run… man who loves you will listen and be kind and care about your body… health.
There is no way to marry someone without knowing how they handle their health regimes.
I’m glad I picked a great man ❤️
@midnightmoon05 You're a lucky gal. :)
Had some ups and downs.
But always found good quality men.
Hope you meet Mr. Right soon. 😊
"Leave me alone forever." is a pretty deadend statement. Sounds like there's something wrong between you or on his side that you have to find out about.
Leave him alone until he cools off, then try to find out. Could be as simple as he wants to break up. He certainly sounded highly annoyed when you texted him. However, I'm as clueless as you. Better call him and find out later.
Well you really need to look at that text different. Don't contact him any more let him contact you let him eat his words. The deeper picture here is every thing he said to you. He doesn't know it but he's telling you who he really is
And that's the part you need to understand
I can tell you right now and I can guarantee you. This relationship will not last just because his very last words. If you try to make it last, the lessons gonna have to be bigger and your heart will break even deeper and understand what really is going on here and listen to his words. He's telling you something, and he doesn't even know it. And if you can't read it and you don't know it , then you're the one that will pay the price in the long run
A few questions for you:
1) Why did you feel the need to tell him you had your period. Were you relieved that you weren't pregnant?
2) What response did you expect from him?
3) Did you actually break up?
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He was probably planning on getting lucky tonight and that suddenly got taken away from him. Yes, not your fault, and his reaction says something about the kind of guy he is. Probably not The One for you.
If someone says to leave them alone…. Do both of yourselves a favor. And do it. Even if it hurts
I'll help you with this situation. This asshole just did you a huge favor. He showed you who he is. Block him and go "no contact". Don't look back.
There is something seriously wrong with your boyfriend. Empathy, zero. Decency, zero. Compassion, zero. Intelligence, zero. Why do you want to be around this jerk?
Obviously you're not telling the full story, else he wouldn't react like that. It's not just some asshole like "I don't care" reply, he basically wants your to delete him and never text again. Either you had some massive argument or other fuck up or you're harassing some guy who's not interested in you
He says leave me alone forever and you still consider him your boyfriend?
Yes bc he gets mean one second then the next second he’s nice again so I don’t take him seriously
I do which is why I’m asking this question I don't know why he got mean and angry at me suddenly
it sounds like your boyfriend got his period.
some guys don't understand what this means. he has a lot of learning to do, which might take like 20-30 years.
If I got that same message, I wouldn't be so toxic, but I would be at a complete loss for what to say.
When you texted him, what were you hoping for in response?
Yeah, because advertising that is the same as broadcasting, I don’t want to have sex with you. Guys aren’t that squeamish about period blood, but if it’s a problem, I wouldn’t advertise it, in the moment I would say, I want to but I can’t right now (hell know what you mean), but I want to do something special for you, and go down on him
He is a jerk! You have no control over a normal body function. Maybe he was looking forward to having sex and he had to jerk off instead? I would ask him why he got mad. How is ur sex life with him otherwise?
He literally told you what was wrong. You're stuck in a loop telling him about your period, while he's wondering what he's supposed to do with this information.
If the reason is that you just want him to know, tell him that you just want him to know.
Lol, he's not your boyfriend, you're just an obsessed freak with that guy.
Sounds more like he uses her as a reusable coom dumpster, and she thinks it means he is committed to her.
Sounds like you are better off without the non-supportive clod.
Why are you even with this kid?
Have some self-respect.
You don’t have a boyfriend.
go get some help… heal up… and be a better girlfriend next time.
you are not in a good place to date atm.
What would this guy do if you missed your period altogether? He is getting off lucky.
It is a red flag about his character. Get rid of him. And for God's sakes, don't get knocked up by him.
He's an asshole simple as. If you're into that, congratulations. If not, find another man.
Look at the bright side of things. At least now you know he isn’t a vampire.
NOBODY gives a fuck about your period, except you and your idiot boyfriend. Work it out between yourselves.
Are you dumb or what? He's not your boyfriend if his response is "leave me along forever". Wtf is this?
This dude sucks. The signs are there. Move on from him.
It's tmi. Do you want to hear when he takes a dump?
He's a child. Also potentially dangerous.
You both need to be single untill you both are more mature
It's clear that you should move on.
Run. He's not ready for a relationship
Well what WAS your reason for telling him?
Simple solution -- date an adult.
I think you need a better boyfriend.
Why? It's not YOUR fault!!
Get rid of this shit bag dude already
He sounds very immature.
What kind of help are you looking for
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