I have been single for almost 20 years now, no girlfriend for 20 long years, I am developing gay tendencies, what should I do?

[BigBang1001]

Its not like Im not attracted to pretty girls, I am! I love women, especially good and beautiful women, but the thing is, the ones whom I fall for are either not attracted to me, or are already taken, and the ones who find me attractive, im not into them!
What do I do? I feel frustrated and suicidal from time to time!

[Summeroflove]

That’s a issue as old as time… It can take time I’m glad though that you’re not wasting a woman’s time what you’re not attracted to because some people will do this… Just to be in a relationship and plan to eventually dump that person if and when better comes along. Instead of letting them find someone who genuinely does like them.

Also what women are you approaching? I mean point blank…. Most of these women are just out minding their own business and many are taken. It’s not wrong to approach someone if you do so respectfully, but just take no as a answer.

It’s best to put yourself in situations where you’ll meet people you have things in common with. Take time if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. It’s better to be single then be in misery with someone you don’t want.

[Curmudgeon]

"Then why am I attracted to women and not men? I approached a few, but they would always reject me" - So who is implanting this "I am developing gay tendencies" idea in your head, because your own reality clearly refutes it? Stop listening to asshole people!

(Jerry Seinfeld's "Not That There's Anything Wrong With That" disclaimer here, but let's get real!)

Your profile says you are 31. 11 years up on this guy, but the principle is the same, Read my advice here. Start NOW, for the tide is turning with each passing year. The teens are twenties are just stacked against men, relationship wise. The good times come from 30 forward!
Can I get a girlfriend?

[Curmudgeon]

The teens AND twenties are just stacked against men, that is. Ugh autocorrect

[slatyb]

20 years? So you started counting when you were 11?

Maybe you've always been gay but afraid to admit it to yourself? That could be a strong reason why you don't date women. Consider seeing a professional counselor to work this out.

[BigBang1001]

Then why am I attracted to women and not men? I approached a few, but they would always reject me

[slatyb]

That's because you have no idea how to approach women. Where are you meeting them? On the street? Not a social situation, there's almost no chance. In a store? Better, but you have to know how to start. The last time it happened to me, I was in the UPS store and there was a woman with a fabulous short cut. I complimented her on it, that's all. She responded "I'm still getting used to it..." A few more remarks and I would have invited her to lunch if I were single.

[BigBang1001]

College, University, pub... but now i have stopped approaching altogether

[slatyb]

Ok, that will work well. What do you want? If you don't know how to approach women, find a licensed professional counselor who offers coaching on dating (not some self-proclaimed pickup artist).

[In_Trance]

If you really feeling gay then go Chow down on some horn

[zagor]

So you were in a relationship at 11?

[BigBang1001]

No but I hit puberty at that age