What is the best way to teach a husband a lesson for not doing his share of housework?

[Anonymous]

I just stop doing his laundry, dishes, let him rot in his own filth. Leave his messes on the counter overnight. Never mop the floors.

If he won't do his share, why should you?

[ohsheeT]

Your in a hard spot because if you just leave every thing of his right where he left it and you don't touch it how long Will you be able to take it if he doesn't do anything.

I mean, if you do that, you have to follow all the way through you can't give in
but you have to do your dishes.\n You can just cook your own dinner. If you're going to make a point, make a point, but don't give in and follow through no matter what.

[Asker]

He's not gonna be able to take it. People don't clean cuz they know u will eventually do it sooner or later.

[ohsheeT]

You mean he will have to do it because he won't be able to take the mess that long. And he knows that you're not going to do it is that what you mean

[Asker]

yea... cuz its little things like this that accumulates and leads to divorce.

[ohsheeT]

Yes your right and you have to set up your boundaries, and he has to respect that\nAnd you're not asking for anything , except for in the cleanup , his own mess , he's not five years old

[Asker]

@ohsheet

oh, even my 5 yr old cleans after he plays

[ohsheeT]

Google , of course , they do , and they become great little helpers , and they also understand why they're helping

[ohsheeT]

Lol my phone has a brain of its own. I don't know what google means l o l
But it seems to do it all the time. I will text out my message. I will click send and somewhere from my phone to wherever it goes. Everything changes or everything gets added. Words delete to i see

[Asker]

@ohsheet

That's how you drill responsibility into young kids. People who raise useless irresponsible pieces of shit teens never tend to teach their kids to clean at a young age. Irresponsible kids are built by bad parenting

[ohsheeT]

No no no I was beat with a belt from 5 to 10 years old? It has black-and-blue at 10 years old. My parents are my stepdad, and my mom got a divorce when I had my kid. I never once yelled at him. I never once raised my hand at him. I communicated with him if he did something wrong and I was going to discipline him the way I would do it is give, I gave him more responsibility. Bad parenting raises bad kids.\n They become just like their parents.\n When you communicate and you have them, understand it. You don't talk for a 1/2 an hour. You talk for 3 to 5 minutes if that Explain what they did wrong and you let it go. You said you understand.\nBut when you're mean and you're out of control, that's who they become\nMy kid is 6 '7 big buff young man he's a fireman, paramedic. Very good looking kid can see things before they happen

[Asker]

Haha I would love to date your son. Why is your son so tall? Are you or your ex wife very tall?

[ohsheeT]

Im 6"1 she was 5"7

[ohsheeT]

They say tramatizing kids hitting them they are scared all the time and it stands their growth my dad.\nWas 6"4 i have a half brother he is 6"4 like I said , from 5 to ten I used to get beat with a belt until I was black-and-blue then when I was five I got really sick , I was in bed for like six months , so i'm sure all the above stunned my growth i filled-out every place else\nBegins strong.\nStealing and really really good shape same with my son is the same way.\nBut I don't know it is what it is , and I like every part of me , so i'm good

[ohsheeT]

According to my son, he said that he got all my jeans.
My son and his girlfriend at the time, had been trying for months and months to meet up with me. So we could have lunch together sometime.\nAnd one day I finally said , okay , let's do it so we met at this little type restaurant Delhi whenever it was and we sat down and the tables were really close to other tables and we sat there and he goes, dad if I ever thank you or making me the way you did and I started laughing, and I said, probably He goes, no, really, he goes look at me and I started laughing. He goes look at my arms. You know, look how big they are. He goes, I got this from you. He was your body. Cause I have your body, he goes. I wish I would have got your eyes though. I got everything else but I didn't get in your eyes. I wish I would have Because I didn't got a big d*** and I started laughing. I go, you got that from your mother and the people around us sitting kind of close to us. They started laughing every time he would say like, look at this feature. Look at that feature, I'd say, yeah, you got that, for me, yep, you got that, for me. But when it came to the dick i had to say yeah, you got that from your mother. But I never gave him fast food or anything like that. He always had good meals, good food and I think that has a lot to do with it too. Who\nKnows

[Twodogs0525]

I bet it would drive you nuts to stop picking up after him. I had a girlfriend that wasn't the neatest person, which I'm just the opposite. I would constantly clean up after her, then decided to stop, to see if she would get the hint and help. She didn't care but it drove me nuts having a mess! Of course, I started cleaning up after her again.

[Asker]

this was hilarious

[DishLady]

Stop feeding him. Only make food for those who are working to keep the house in order.

[Abbycado]

If you can’t figure this out, you and he have failed already. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Jersey2]

The hate is strong with you, like crazy strong… I wonder what the reason is. And Anonymous too. Trying to up hate in others I see.

[Asker]

i see you hating on every woman on GAG... maybe thats you

[Jersey2]

I like women. Just not troll.

[Asker]

im not a troll either.

[jahaims]

You aren't his parent. If you have to parent your partner then you don't have a partner. If your partner doesn't do his fair share he doesn't respect you or is too stupid to understand he does less.

[msc545]

Go ahead with that plan, and you can start a really nice fight that may end in a divorce.

[msc545]

Try actually talking to him about the problem instead of acting like an angry five-year-old.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Pussy punishment. Granted that only works for awhile. What was your share of the chores?

[Nikki1989]

Find a new husband.

[exitseven]

withhold sex. It always worked on , me.

[Asker]

Just wondering... if you could offer me some advice on being married.

[exitseven]

being married is like everything else in life. You have to work hard to make it work.

[Asker]

no. im entering a marriage out of settling... not sure if i wanna do it. If I don't settle, i know I won't ever be able to find love.

[exitseven]

I do not know you but you should not have to settle. It will bite you in the butt later.

[Asker]

no it won't. I am just marrying him so I can retire earlier. he has a business... high hopes that it would flourish so that I can only work 1 day a week by the time I hit 40

[Asker]

but... this man is very bare minimum effort. too bare minimum effort. I feel like I'm the only one putting effort in. I don't want to have sex with him. I don't feel like he is a caring man. We are both settling. but I'm the only one that tries in the relationship

[Asker]

I can't find love. I've looked everywhere. I can't fall in love with anyone. And I've already spent my entire life being alone, never been in a relationship. Its been a very panful, lonely life. I can't imagine staying this single forever.

[Anonymous]

Sit down and talk to him.

[zombiewoof]

Stop cleaning up after him