3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. For me i can find beauty in everything its really no one thing It's a combination of everything beautiful heart Beautiful Mind wisdom strength innocence laughter confidence the passion seduction able to speak with their eyes it's just everything really but not one thing
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2 moPersonality will make someone of average looks attractive. It's just a matter of getting to know them well enough to feel an attraction, since looks is what initially pulls you in. That's why so many average looking people had good looking significant others in high school and why there's a lot of mingling among people that work together. You are confined and could actually get to each other for who they actually are, it's harder to do that in most settings outside of school or work.
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2 moI can’t tell you. Everyone I dated was somewhat handsome.
I still regret the guy I didn’t go further with, because he had thin legs and I was not that attracted to him, he was a perfect husband material…
But he did deserve someone who loved him and was attracted to him as much as I can be attracted to men when I like them.
We learn through the years though.
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2 moGood looks are like chocolate, it is enjoyable, but not for long. Once you finish the chocolate, the enjoyment is over. Personality is less dramatic, but the joy lasts longer.
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u 2 moWhy can't we want a partner who is attractive AND had a good personality? The two are not mutually exclusive.
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2 moNo. I prefer a balance of personality and physical appearance. Looking healthy is very important.
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2 moIt's not appearance over personality or personality over appearance. For me anyway it's a balance. Sure appearance matters. But, given that most of us are not going to find the idea of a "10" in physical appearance with an ideal personality. That's a goddamned unicorn, LOL. Most of us have to find a balance. Call it settling if you want. I'd call it making realistic sound choices.
So let's say there's stripper beautiful "Barbie" but she comes with the whole range of entitlement problems. No accountability, no self control, credit card debt out the wazoo, vain, self absorbed, alcohol and drugs, self esteem issues, etc. The sex may be great. But your life would be a living hell. That's one extreme. The rollercoaster.
Then you've got another woman with none of those qualities. "Martha", she's smart, kind, thoughtful, funny, self aware, holds herself accountable, exercises self control. But she's 100 lbs overweight with no sense of style and she doesn't even try to make herself look attractive. That's the other extreme. The couch potato roommate.
But let's say that "Martha" came with decent looks and she was into fitness. She actually tries to have a sense of style and she's pretty good at it. She uses makeup tastefully. She does stuff. She has her own friends. She's fun to be around. She dependable. "Martha" is "Goldilocks"... juuuuust right. A well balanced person. Martha blows stripper "Barbie" away every time.
00 Reply Both are important, but to be honest, looks come before personality. If they look good, then you check out the personality. If the personality is great but the looks aren't there, the relationship doesn't even get off the ground.
Most people won’t even care what’s inside if the packaging isn’t appealing.00 Reply
2 mono. Why is it so popular for people virtue signal like attraction is not important? Personality is important, but if you’re gonna be pursuing a sexual relationship, attraction is gonna be equally important because a relationship without attraction is just a friendship. I've girls who weren’t conventionally, attractive or maybe a little thicker, but I still need to find them attractive.
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m 2 moIt's not that I prefer personality over appearance, it's that I want something to enjoy feeling and talking about when we're not having sex. I can't have that if her personality isn't fitting mine.
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The perennial question. Does the talking improve the sex? Or is the sex just to give you something to talk about?
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Oh it's a very easy question for me, my own love life shows me exactly how talking influenced my perceptions of sex across different relationships !
Nope. No amount of one can make up for the other. There has to be a certain amount of both plus a bit of some other things.
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2 moOf course. Why would I want to be with a bitch no matter what she looked like? A bad personality is a deal breaker, looks are not.
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2 moIt could never be that black and white
It’s a balance of all that makes up a woman not just aspects , features etc00 Reply - 484 opinions shared on Dating topic.
2 moPhysical appearance goes a long way, but personality and above all else character goes to the finish line with me.
00 Reply Both is important. Your personality goes with your selfcare - respect yourself and care about your health.
00 Replyyes, i would be very happy with a guy whos personality is perfect to me and agreeable looking than the perfect looking guy whos personality isn't a match.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. There's got to be a balance. Usually the better looking somebody is, the worse their personality can be and still attract people. Also the better someone's personality, the uglier they can be and still attract people.
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. 5 + in looks, but 8 + in personality compatibility is what I'd need in a potential partner.
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2 moI don't really care much. There other stuff I care about way more
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Anonymous(25-29)2 mono one genuinely prefers personality over physical appearance
that's the biggest lie people keep telling themselves and telling others
00 Reply892 opinions shared on Dating topic. As I am getting older personality over rules good looks.
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As the first thing someone or at least I notice about the other person is how they look not necessarily focusing on it but it is the first thing in sight.00 Reply- 5.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
2 moBoth are equally important for me.
Who can be with a person that you don't find physically attractive or be in a home with a person who personality sucks?00 Reply - 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
2 moYes like 51% and the other 49%
I always go for the cutie patootie inside and out.
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2 moA little of column A, a little of column B.
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We all pretend to be sensitive, evolved heroes, but looks are the filter that determines who we decide to invest in getting to know.
Wish I could say so, but really physical appearance usually drives the personality.
00 ReplyNot really a personality doesn't have anything to do with an ACT!
00 ReplyFirst off all looks is not imprewsive 2 me as they r relativrly commom
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2 moYes I do cause physical appearance only goes so far then you need more
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2 mo... sorry, had to catch my breath from too much laughter...
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2 moMost assuredly!
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2 moYes but I don’t want an ugmo, either.
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2 moSome attraction is necessary.
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Yea I think women place higher value on looks more so than men
8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Ideally they should have both.
00 Reply999 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, 10000%, even though physicality is important
00 Reply6.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. For sure, just can't be ugly
00 ReplyIt depends on the person.. isn't it?
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2 moYes, but spuds greatly matter !!!
00 Reply I think they are equal to each other
00 ReplyFor the most part, yes, but i do like looking
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2 moGenuinely
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I agree, being genuine and honest is very important in a partner!
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@Cute_User513 absolutely!
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Wonderful!
799 opinions shared on Dating topic. yesss
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2 moYes.
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2 moAbsolutely
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2 moNow yes
00 Reply 371 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes.
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2 moIt’s higher
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Anonymous(36-45)2 moHonestly - no.
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